Saturday, 14 November 2009

• Second Chances: Recipe for Heart Ache?

  I really try to put up a strong front but the truth is when it comes to matters of the heart I am as weak as everyone else.  I know I said Bachelorette Boy's story ended a few weeks ago... but he is persistent.
  

  I thought he had blocked me on AIM because he disappeared for about a month (maybe he was on The Bachelorette! lol) but sure enough Tuesday morning I put up an away message, get in the shower and come back to a message... from him... saying "Aw the movie Up comes out today.  I had really wanted to see that with you :(  I hope you're well"

  I had a heart attack and died for about 12 minutes.  What?  WHAT?  Why?  Why now?  Why are you contacting me???  Because he wants what he can't have.  He wants control.  He wants to win.  Also, (as I predicted) he misses me.

  My friends are pissed.  They want to smack him. 

  My mom?  Asked if I believe in second chances.  Do I believe in second chances?  Do I think maybe he deserves one?

  WHAT?  A second chance?  For him??? Are you insane? More Here...

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• Why Rape Fantasies are Wrong

  I read this article about rape fantasies and it really upset me about people having them. From a rape survivor I really upsets me because rape isn't something to fantasize about.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  Rape is still unwanted sexual contact, and rape is not something to joke with. More Here...

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• One Night Stand Etiquette

  I had my first one night stand not too long ago.  My first and only.  And, I'm not too proud of it.  But what I don't know is... is there like some unwritten rule about how to act if you ever see that person again?
  

  
  

  
  

  
  I thought I'd never see him again.  But oh god, I did.  I was at a bar with a friend of mine and I see him to my left.  Our eyes met, so I turn more towards my friend and talk to him to avoid him.  A little later, he takes the seat next to me and turns my chair (the bar chair swivels) towards him in the middle of my conversation with my friend and starts talking to me, saying "How long are you going to pretend you don't recognize me?" More Here...

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• Surviving a Long Term Relationship

  Do you have what it takes?
  

  
  

  
  

  
  Long term relationships are funny creatures. They start out with such fire and spirit but over time will evolve into something entirely different. Do you have what it takes to make it last? Can you handle the challenge? More Here...

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• I Can't Be His Everything

  
  

  Have you guys ever dated someone who has made you their everything?

  With my current boyfriend, he has already made it clear that I'm his everything. Problem is, he is not mine. More Here...

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