Hypothetically speaking, let's say there's this girl, we'll call her Jane. The boy is Joe. Jane and Joe met each other last year around September and hit it off immediately. They first got together in October and Jane broke up with him a week later, deciding she wasn't ready for a relationship. This started a whole year of Jane and Joe being an on and off couple, most of the breakups being Jane's own doing.

The last time Jane broke up with Joe was in May. Hypothetically, of course, they went the whole summer without speaking, until Jane saw him at school in September and realized what a huge mistake she'd made. Jane missed Joe like crazy. We're talking in every thought she had, wishing to share every moment of her life with him, wanting to feel his hand in hers and his arms around her, crying herself to sleep over her mistake kind of missed him. Jane talks to Joe about how much she misses him, and Joe decides he needs time to think about whether or not he wants her back.

A week goes by and Jane doesn't hear anything from Joe. That Friday Jane goes to a party, still missing Joe like crazy. Jane doesn't think Joe will take her back. She knows how she messed up with him and that their relationship was never really that good before, but she knows she's ready for a relationship now and knows things will be different. The only thing is Joe doesn't know that, and no matter how many times Jane tells him this she knows he doesn't believe her. So back to Jane's party. Let's say that hypothetically, she is drinking cause she misses him, and she's a stupid teenager so she doesn't think about the consequences her actions could have in store for her.

With every shot Jane can feel the drunkness creeping up on her, but she doesn't stop. More Here...

I feel a lot of people depend on the advice that other people give them; be it magazines, xanga, other blogs, friends.. whatever, but when it comes down to finding the right person for you, you gotta consider the fact that others advice are things that worked for THEM or for a certain percentage of people. How can you act the way a magazine or someone who barely knows you, tells you to?

When it comes down to finding the person that's right for you, just be you. If the date didn't work out, take it as a good thing because if you pretended to be someone you're not, it wouldn't work out in the long run anyway, cause sooner or later your true colors will show. I think the best advice to give when it comes to dating is to just be you, enjoy the time you're about to spend and the lessons you might learn.

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So it happened. The thing that women always question to themselves... or at-least i know i did? "Will I ever have a one night stand?" That answer finally was answered to me last night. The answer was "yes."

I would previously write in my blogs that I am nowhere close to the label "SLUT" but I am horny a lot ever sense me and my first love broke up. I asked and just talk to myself on whether or not it was worth seeing some person and just having sex. Cause it came to the point for me that I wouldn't care who I with. (giving the exception that he would be clean in all aspects.) But at the time I had only been with one person at the time, and like I said he was my first love, so I was at the level of people I ever wanted to be with. Yet the thought that as always at the back of my mind was... " Would I be considered a slut? Would I lose my self respect? Will I look in the mirror and despise myself in the end?" More Here...