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Why You're Not a Slut

From time to time, I like to take out my soap box and jump on it with the fury of a chick on a mission. I like to scream at the top of my lungs and make those around me say, "She's obnoxious!" However, I reserve this to…
An All New Low: Just the Cute Girl

So I am sort of going through a self-evaluation/acceptance period towards myself and one BIG barrier is my outward appearance. Apparently, I am the cute girl. Not pretty. Not beautiful. Not hot. Just cute. And it's been…
Insecurity Issues

A while ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. I am now 19 and we met when we were 14. Though he wasn’t my first everything, he was the first boy I fell in love with. It started off good, just like any other relationsh…
Boys Don't Like Me

For years I've been "the girl without a boyfriend." I've managed to slide through high school without even the prospect of a potential mate. I've fallen for guys, but nothing ever came of it. Either they were way too ol…
How to Get Over Someone You Never Actually Dated

“Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love” -Charlie Brown As Charlie Brown so astutely points out, one of the most difficult experiences to cope with is unrequited love. I&r…
Why Her and Not Me?

That is the question that plagues a woman's mind when a man chooses another woman over her. You're left wondering what you did wrong to push him away or think you're not good enough. You may find yourself seeking valida…
YOU Are Beautiful

Am I fat? Am I ugly? Am I stupid? Am I hated? Am I a failure? Am I a loser? Questions. Questions we ask ourselves, questions others make us think about. The kind you ask yourself as you stare in your bathroom mirror, wo…
I Want You to Want Me

I just want to be needed. "I want you to want me. I need you to need me. I'd love you to love me. I'm beggin' you to beg me." - Cheap Trick I just want someone there for me, and just for me. I want to know that ther…
Falling in Love With Myself

As the New Year has begun and people have gone in full-force to change their lives and become better, I realize that I have very few things that I would like to improve upon. One thing that I do feel needs to change, ho…
7 Ways to Be the Sexiest Woman in the Room

(Warning: This post contains an inordinate amount of generalizations. There are always exceptions.) In these modern times, women are just as capable (if not more) than our male companions. We work, raise children (no e…