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What's Wrong with Being a "Slut"?

I've been fascinated by sex ever since I was a kid (who wasn't?). I remember being exposed to porn and masturbation at a very young age (thanks, Internet!) and reading graphic sex scenes in teen novels (thanks, library?…
"Are You His Mother?"

Before entering the class, it's normal for girls to spend some 'quality time' chit-chatting, talking about their daily lives, hairstyle and even love life! Recently, one of my girl friends got her hair permed. That's ni…
Am I in the Wrong Here?

Three times now I've been caught in situations when I am friends with many guy-friends, and suddenly one of them turns into a boyfriend, and I continue being friends with the others, only to find out from someone else t…
A Noticeable Difference in How Women Treat You When You're Thin

Just to start out and clarify, I currently have almost no experience in the world of dating and relationships at the age of twenty-two. There were many issues I had growing up that may have contributed to this, but now…
Is It Cheating?

So, my friend, we'll call her Cindy. She's been going out with this guy, we'll call him Kevin. She is also involved with another guy, and we will call him Tyler. A while back, Cindy was on the bus ride home when she not…
The Internet vs Reality & Perception

I've decided that my current dating life warrants a little bit of discussion. I've been chatting with a friend who is abroad this semester. It has progressed to talking every day for hours. There has been mutual flirtin…
Curvy vs. Skinny: Are Skinny Women Really That Unattractive?

Why are skinny girls always thought of as unattractive? Yes I am what a lot people may refer to as skinny. I don't have a flat tush, but it's not big and round either, it's just small and a little/slightly curvy. I'm st…
Why It Shouldn't Matter If Someone Calls You a Slut

Oh, quit taking sides-- who gives a fuck? The thing is, if there weren't sluts out there our lives would suck. Don't get me wrong, we all have 'slutty' phases in our lives. Hell, I've gone through two of them myself and…
The Difference Between Friendship and Something More

What is the difference between a close friendship and a close relation? Most of us believe that when friendship becomes stronger, it may turn into relationship. The truth is different. Think about the kind of talk y…
Why Nerds Don't Win With The Ladies

I know how many women say they are attracted to the nerdy, smart type of guy but face it, they are the ones who have the least action with women. In my college physics course about 80% of the class is male and I'm cer…