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You Want a "Good Man", Not a "Nice Guy"

Hear me out in this one. Whenever I think of both the women who complain about the nice guy, and the ones who talk about them, I wonder if the girls are aware they might be using the wrong terms for what they want. To m…
Nice Guys: Nobody Understands Their Position

(Disclaimer: I am only talking about true "Nice guys", not the guy that treats you nicely.) Let's first go to the good ol' UrbanDictionary to find out what a "nice guy" is: "A man who you can call late at night just bec…
Why Do Girls Fall for Bad Boys?

Some years ago, an acquaintance of mine asked me: "Why is it that girls go for the bad boys? Is it because I'm not as good looking, or girls are just stupid?" I gave it little thought at the time, since it was never r…
Nice Guys Don't Finish Last, They Just Don't Try Hard Enough

I have a big problem with guys who proclaim themselves as "nice". Do you know what my problem is? The problem with a lot of "nice guys" is the fact that they victimize themselves. They convince themselves that the r…
Vienna v. Tenley: Jake's Decision

I'm sure everyone's had enough of Facebook updates and tweets about the season finale of The Bachelor. Although, I watched the show every now and then (guilty pleasure) I didn't get so involved that as one Facebook f…
Man Man's Explanation of Jerk and Nice Guy

If anyone ever needs a music video to communicate the idea between a nice guy and a jerk, pay attention to Man Man's "Rabbit Habits". And you will understand.Here are the things I have learned from that video.
The Good, the Bad and the Way Too Nice!

After a recent post featured here about how some women want assholes in their lives and men don't want to date the female equivalent I felt compelled to write about this. I as a woman will not touch on what men want.…
The Last Word on Nice Guys

I really cannot take one more "nice" guy bitching about how nice guys always finish last. You know what that means? He didn't get to bang the girl. "Nice" guys aren't really nice, they're strategists. Just like the d…
Smashing Stereotypes: Nice Guys Finish Last

Nice guys finish first. ALWAYS. It's the fact of life. They say nice guys finish last because most of them give up before the end of the race, but the truth is, nice guys never finish last if they truly are nice. Trust m…
Why Nice Guys Finish Last

I know you've heard the phrase about how nice guys finish last. Green Day even wrote a song with that very same title. And it's true. But it's not true because women are sadistic creatures or they like being hurt. It's t…