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Redneck Romeo, Tail Light Juliet

Last year at this time, I was breaking up with my fiancé. He was very controlling and lied about dumb things. Our break-up was a good thing but I took it pretty hard, and he hounded me so it was that much worse.…
Crushed By My Crush

This post was submitted anonymously. So, in my last post I wrote how I confessed my feelings by email to my crush and was anxiously awaiting his response. He emailed me promptly back at 8:20 the next morning. With bated…
Are We Just Friends or More?

When you don't know what you are to somebody, it can be really confusing. My recent situation is a constant rollercoaster of emotions and mixed signals. I'm so sick of what's going on. For instance, we went…
Why Is He Mean to Me?

Okay, so I've liked this guy for a while now and we're friends, I guess you could say. You see, this guy is so mean to me; in a playful way but still. Normally a guy friend will strike up a conversation with you and say…
Friendzoned Females

Men in our lives fall into different relationship categories: boyfriends, sex partners, just friends, mentors, etc. But one category I seem to be encountering a lot lately is the almost-boyfriend friend category, and I…
The Difference Between Friendly and Flirty?

I'm a guy. And, being a guy, I don't pick up on hints very well. Okay, probably not at all. And so I call out to my fellow Xangans and Datingish readers to help me out and educate me. I don't know the difference betwe…
He's Making Me Feel Awkward? Why?

Recently, I felt a work colleague was interested. Over time, I have felt that I have been getting mixed signals. So far it seems, that when I try and speak to him subtly about things that I am noticing, he backs off and…
What Is She Thinking?

I feel so stupid for analyzing this small stuff but I can't help it. I can't figure out how she feels about me. She hangs out with me a lot (not every time I want to, almost though). When we watch TV or a movie she…
I'm In Love With My Best Friend. Again.

As a teenager, I dated a good friend of mine. We had an amazing relationship, for an amazingly short period of time, and it quickly faded. Years have passed since we broke it off, yet we have been best friends nearly t…
Are You Into Me? : Decoding Mixed Messages

The most unattractive thing that a person can do is send someone mixed messages. In my life, I've encountered far too many people who falsely believe that mixed messages are sexy. Clarity and definition in intimate dati…