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Just Don't Do It: Givin' Out the Milk for Free

The final "Just Don't Do It" of the series. Enjoy. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people read the title and erupt into an out-loud and drawn-out "Whaaaaattttt" to their computer screen. And it is ironic, becaus…
Just Don't Do It: Keep Your Hands to Your DATE (and No One Else)

Oh this one is so important - my apologies for leaving it unsaid for so long. If there is one thing you absolutely should NOT DO when you are still involved with someone in the early dating stage (presumably every ot…
Just Don't Do It: The Critical Eye

I've talked about how it's never a good idea to criticize yourself to your date. I now state what I would think would be more obvious (but hey - people are strange): You should also never criticize your date to your…
Just Don't Do It: Name Amnesia

Contrary to...all...of the other "do it"s that I warn you "don't", this is a precaution I give from experience as the perpetrator of the act. Hi, my name is Fiona, and I suffer from name amnesia. This is my story.…
Just Don't Do It: The Drug Edition

Unlike many of my other "Just Don't Do It" posts, wherein made-up lingo and complicated situational descriptions are incorporated into portraying a pretty particular dating scene, this dating don't is simple, straightf…
Just Don't Do It: "Nothing Serious" is Pretty Serious

I took up a date offer from a guy who I had been feeling "eh" about for awhile, but who showed enough persistence that I decided "Hell - he deserves a chance."
Just Don't Do It: The Self-Proclamation Train

Ladies and gentleboys, I have for you another warning for the word-vomit front, another type that we all must ensure is tightly locked from motion before any sort of date ensues. This type is what I like to think of as…
Just Don't Do It: Flaw Talk

We’re all a little bit insecure – hey, if you think you’re perfect you’re bound to be wrong! We’ve all lived with ourselves long enough to know which physical, emotional, and mental qualit…
Just Don't Do It: Dropping the L-Bomb Ahead of Schedule

It was their fourth date. Mary and Scott had shared a wonderful evening together that had started with a romantic dinner by the river and had progressed to dancing at a chic outdoor night club. Their connection was e…
Just Don't Do It: Ex-Nay the Ex-Talk

Remember: these posts are aimed at newly dating PSOs. Of course it's tempting, regardless of whether or not your most recent break-up was recent by all standards, to compare your PSO to your XSO. Nonetheless, do not…