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Constant Fear Of Being Cheated On

I think it's normal to feel a bit worry or concern about possibly being cheated on. Although throwing irrational accusations left and right might be a sign of insecurity. I've always been the type of girl to cheat o…
"Men Want Women Who Look Like This!"

When I was 16 years old, I had my first boyfriend let's call him "Mike", we knew each other from before hand because he worked at my family owned business when it was still open. It was bliss, and he made me happy, we …
When Insecurity Rears Its Ugly Head...

First off, what does that phrase even mean? Well, it refers to something that has made an unwelcome appearance or has become a troublesome subject that requires attention. I can't think of one person who is not insecur…
I Saw Him Checking Out Other Girls

I recently went to the club this past weekend in Austin, TX. There are beautiful girls everywhere. Well, my boyfriend was with me. I got dressed up. And I saw him checking out other girls while I'm right next to him. He…
Dear Dr. Datingish: Why Can't I Be Happy?

Dr. DatingishAt the risk of sounding like a paranoid, possessive, clingy girlfriend, I'm submitting my woes for your advice and judgment.My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. We met in college and…
He Was Texting A Girl Late at Night

I had a very open and honest relationship with my boyfriend of 3+ years. Despite his charm and good looks, I always felt that he was genuinely a good guy, and I could trust him. About a month ago, through some interact…
Can I Trust Him Again?

3 months ago, my boyfriend moved to Maryland while I stayed behind in Miami. I was so consumed with questions and mistrust, that I made a fake MySpace account and tried to set him up. I sent him a message on the account …
My Insecurities Just Seem to Multiply

Miss Walrus I recently wrote a post about how I think that you need to "love yourself" (cliche, I know) in order to love someone else. But I didn't exactly realize how true that was until these past few days. Miracul…
Is Self Deprecating Humor Okay?

Miss Walrus If there's one thing I'm good at in this world, it's making fun of myself. I don't know why, but poking fun at my mishaps is my way of dealing with them. Normally my self deprecating humor gets a few lau…
I'm Gonna Try Dating Out of My League

Lately, I've been running. Two miles. Every day. This is quite different from my usual after school routine a few months ago which included a bottle of Carlo and Scrubs reruns. So last Thursday, as I was running my litt…