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Should We Expose A Cheater?

My boyfriend and I went out for a date night recently and while we were having fun just goofing around, he suddenly had a distracted look on his face. I asked him what was wrong and he told me that he thought he saw hi…
Lacking A Conscience?

This summer I was talking to this guy for a while. I liked him a lot and he knew that I did but apparently he didn't feel the need to tell me that it wasn't mutual. He didn't hesitate to use me for all that I would give…
Follow-Up: "I Lied Because I Loved You"

Several of the comments on my post "I Lied Because I Loved You" stated that you wanted more background information in order to decide whether or not you think he really loved me. I did not provide that information in the…
"I Lied Because I Loved You."

An ex of mine gave me this reason for why he lied about cheating on me: "I lied because I loved you". Basically, he cheated then lied about it because he did not want our relationship to end. What are your thoughts…
If It's A Bad Experience, Should You Say Something?

So this is something a friend and I were discussing today: If you have absolutely terrible sex with someone, are you obligated to tell them so? Also, if you still like them despite the less-than-par sex, do you offer to…
"They Don't Wanna Define It" - The Implications of Hooking Up

Whoa, whoa, I do hook up. I guess that means, Miss Clarkson, that I do come cheap...if only in the sense that what I give of myself, I give freely, asking nothing of the other. In the eyes of some, in the eyes of many…
Sharing My Fantasies Might Intimidate Him

Recently my SO and I have started talking about our sexual fantasies. I've never been a particularly bashful person, but when it comes to my fantasies...well, I'm a bit of a freak in my mind and just the thought of shari…
Admit A Crush or Hope It Subsides?

It takes me a long time to like or love someone, but I get little mini-crushes all the time. These people aren't necessarily my type - they're enigmatic, catch my attention and make me want to know more about them. After…
I'm Not Open Enough With My BF about What I Want

So here's the thing...I've been dating my BF for two years and everything has always been good and whatnot. But I have a problem being sexually open with him... I mean he was/is my first everything., but I don't think…
How Honest Are You In Your Relationships?

I'm the kind of person who will tell you what I really think, how I really feel, and probably at some point, end up hurting your feelings. I can't help it. My stomach gets all queasy when I can't tell someone how I reall…