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What You Are Actually Entitled To in a Relationship

I have been thinking about this subject for a long time, but after reading Entitlement and Standards, I figured I might as well write out what has been going through my head. So, keep in mind, this is an opinion piece.…
Would You Admit to Having Crushed on Your Female Friend?

I wanted to strangle C. when I found out from his best friend that he told his girlfriend he had a crush on me. Well, he didn't say it that way. She asked him if he ever wanted to hook up or more with me. His answer?
"I Want Honesty, But It Better Be the Right Kind of Honesty!"

In the quest to find the right person, certain qualities appeal to everyone: physical attraction, a good sense of humor, kindness and honesty. Honesty is key in any relationship if you want it to last. Girls and guys al…
Getting the Guy and Keeping Your Morals

This post was submitted anonymously. I am 25 years old and a virgin. I didn’t think I would be at this age but here I am. I have never been in love, and promised myself years ago that I would be in love. This isn…
I Had Two Boyfriends at the Same Time for Six Months

I didn't mean for it to happen, honestly, I didn't. But it did and I'm not very proud of it. It was back in 2008. In September, I moved away to a University 120 miles from my house. I also had to start a long distan…
The Virtues of Infidelity

Last week I was reading an article in the New York Times magazine about Dan Savage and his view of non-monogamy, entitled The Virtues of Infidelity. I found it incredibly thought provoking, and wanted to share a few exc…
I Know Who You Did Last Summer

Before life was awesome with my boyfriend, one of the most fought about conflicts we had was about our past sexual histories. We didn't exactly meet or get to know each other in the best of circumstances, but sometimes…
To Tell Or Not to Tell?

I recently had a conversation with a customer (Lana) who had had a few too many Long Island iced teas while she tried to puzzle through the dilemma she was facing, regarding whether or not she should tell her friend (Ve…
So... What Do You Think of Her?

My uncle Jack called the other day to say he'd be in Brooklyn this weekend, so last night we met for a beer. In keeping with the recent theme of my life whereby I think I'm meeting one person and end up meeting many peo…
Things That You Suck At

We all have things we're good at and we're proud to talk about them. But what about those things which we're pretty damn terrible at? I propose that we make a list of these things, embarrassing or not. Our relationships…