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All I Wanted Was a Gay Best Friend

So I may or may not have accidentally hooked up with a gay man last night. I am trying to ignore the clues and hoping that it isn’t true, but today’s pounding hangover tells me there is a 60% chance that my…
Cheating is Okay as Long as You're Drunk, Right?

Around this time last year I was in a long distance relationship with a man in the Navy. I'm not going to say it was a terrible relationship, but let's just say the bad didn't outweigh the good in this matter. We dated…
Lucid, Not Loose

I always find my drinking nights to be a slippery slope. Not only do I drink a whole five times a year, but I'm a complete light weight on top of that; so after one Malibu Bay Breeze (the only drink I can taste without…
A Letter to My Drunk Self

User wishes to remain anonymous. A Letter to my Drunk Self, Here’s the problem…in your mind alcohol = boys (and lots of them). It only takes a few sips and something in your brain tells you to flirt intens…
Going Off the Rails: How Much is Too Much?

The subject of this post is my much maligned ex-girlfriend, and one of her problems which opened my eyes to the ridiculous lengths a 21st Century girl could go to be accepted and look cool at university. I am of course…
Life Lessons I Learned Through a Drunk Hookup

Two of my friends and I decided to head out to an art show last Friday night and maybe hit up a new club I heard about. I brought a large bottle of wine that was more then half empty before we left the house. We were…
Just a Quickie: How Responsible is a Drunk Person for Their Actions?

My boyfriend told me that if he were to drink at a bar, without me, he'd be susceptible to being seduced by other women... and do 'stupid things' that would make me upset.
When Rape Isn't His Fault

The other day I shared my story about being date raped on Halloween when I was 18. I stated we were both drunk and someone, correctly, pointed out that a person can't give consent when drunk and so it is rape. I agre…
Should I Ask Her Not to Go to Vegas?

Okay, time to get real. I need advice, plain and simple. I am dating a girl who, for the first time, I am madly in love with. Considering marriage, but waiting for the right time. Up front we had conversations about wha…
4 Tips for Partying Safely

For most of my life, I have been around self defense classes and martial arts. For that same period of time, I have had many girl friends (emphasis on the space) who do things that got on my nerves- not because they wer…