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Dating an Acquaintance's "Ex"?

I didn't think there was anything that could go wrong with co-ed dorms in college, but this is driving me insane. I'm going to make this description as short as possible: I'm in a group of 8 friends - Anna, Sarah, H…
I Think Have a Crush... on a Girl

So, I have been really confused lately. Ever since I have broken up with my boyfriend, Arthur. Things are going fine. Kinda. So much drama with him and my mother, which I really do not want to get into. I feel so bad, be…
Commitment Phobia

I've been in a relationship now for the better part of 4 years with a guy who is deathly afraid of commitment. We've been friends for going on 8 years, and both go to the same college. Lately, it seems like we've both…
Some Things Don't Come in Halves...like Sex

I’m totally the killer of the male fantasy. While some girls enjoy at the thought of making a male’s blood boil with stories of naked sun bathing with their girlfriends (at least that’s what ManCouch says girls do, l…
Second Chances: Recipe for Heart Ache?

I really try to put up a strong front but the truth is when it comes to matters of the heart I am as weak as everyone else. I know I said Bachelorette Boy's story ended a few weeks ago... but he is persistent. I thoug…
Holding Someone, or Just Simply, Something

“Isn’t it better to hold a real person rather than a teddy bear or pillow?” Eight months ago, when I was asked this question, I said, “yes.” At a time of his loneliness and my emotional weakness, I made decisions I …
How Common Are Rape Fantasies?

I was really shocked yesterday when my girlfriend told me, but she's really worried about one of her friends. It seems that for the last 2 years, this girl she knows hopes for and dreams about being raped by strangers…
Have You Gone Back to a Cheater?

"Steve" and "Sarah" has been together for as long as I can remember. They were the "on and off" couple that everyone was aware of and wonder why they were together despite all their differences. You see, Steve has b…
Sleeping Together or Just Sleeping?

The other day I went to visit a friend of mine who lives about half an hour away. We hadn't seen each other for probably a couple of months so we had a lot to catch up on, and stayed up until about 6:30 just talking. …
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

I've been going steady with this wonderful woman for over 5 months now. That's not an extremely long time but it is the first really committed romantic relationship I've been a part of so it's substantial for me. The rel…