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Need Help Choosing Between Two Great Guys

Question submitted by Jane: I really don't know what to do. I liked "Guy 1" from my work and we kept things casual. He is 7 years older than me and rents a flat. We didn't put a label on it and kept it casual. Then a…
Conflicted Between My Ex and Current Boyfriend

This post was submitted by Brittany. I have a boyfriend right now but I'm not sure about the relationship. I think I still have feelings for my other crushes. They're all in the same class and I don't want to create any…
Bisexual or Not?

I met a transgendered person who I have come to love and whom loves me. I embrace him as a male and his female side as well. I always thought I was heterosexual. I find women attractive and have come to understand my se…
Hurt and Confused

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years now. I met him when I was 16 (young), but I knew from the start that there wasn't anything I wouldn't do for him. I have talked to other males, which he considers cheat…
He's Perfect, So Why Am I Nervous?

I was in a relationship for close to 7 years with a man who didn't want to commit. He rarely said "I love you," and was never romantic. If he wanted sex, instead of kissing me, he commonly tickled me. One Valentine's Da…
Perfect on Paper but No Attraction

This post was submitted anonymously. I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. We dated for eight months before we committed. I said yes to being his girlfriend because on paper, he is a really nice guy. He lis…
How Do I Say Goodbye to an Obsessive Stalker?

This is a long story, but I'll try to be brief. This guy and I were classmates and good friends from 6-9th grade. During that time, he developed a crush on me and I had a crush on his best friend. Teenage angst and lov…
Mixed Signals from My Boyfriend

My boyfriend has been giving me mixed signals lately and this is not the first time he has done this. However, I have confronted him about it and he says that he's doing it because he's been hurt many times, and that he…
Relationships Stuck in Purgatory

There's always a reason for a date not to blossom into a full-blown committed relationship. Maybe one person isn't in the most secure of places in his or her life. Maybe there just wasn't enough chemistry. Maybe they wa…
Am I a Relationship Virgin?

This post has been submitted by Datingish reader, M. Hi, I'm in my first year of uni now and sort of never dated. Well, it's complicated. I ended 'it,' but we started talking again and I sort of miss him. I'm just real…