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The Interracial Deal Breaker

"I can't be with a woman that has been with a black man." I stared at him, dumbfounded. What difference does it make if I've dated a black man, or not? Better yet, what is my dating history to you? He's a good friend o…
Here's Why Men Keep the Hands Down Their Pants

It's a feeling of security. It's the warmth we so desperately need now that we've been cast away from the womb. It's that breast we can no longer suckle on. It's the comfort in knowing we are indeed still men. But mostl…
How Much Is Too Much Independence?

Is there such a thing as being overly-independent? I feel like I might be straddling the line between independent and dismissive. All day at work I feel like I’m always saying ‘I have it under control.&rsqu…
The Flipside of the "Typical" Threesome Issue

So I'm fairly new to the blogging world, but after reading through Datingish I said why not give it a shot here? I've seen a few about threesomes and the troubles of feeding into your lover's fantasy of it. I on the oth…
My Stranger

It's one of those Friday nights where I'm laying in my bed, staring up at my ceiling. As I was cleaning my room earlier this week, I found a small trinket that was linked to my past. It was a dog tag that had "Kat and…
One-on-One Time With an Opposite Sex Friend - Allow It?

(From a Datingish reader who wishes to remain anonymous) In my spare time, I usually browse on this particular forum where I would offer my advice and perspective if asked. In this one particular thread, "Lily," was co…
A Wake-Up Call to All Women

Girls can be really confusing. At times, we do not say what we want. We may actually say the opposite and expect guys to know what we mean (this isn't just exclusive to guys, I know). When or if the back-to-single / we…
Ladies, Let Your Boyfriends Keep the Porn

So, you've got a great boyfriend. Incredibly cute, sweet, and your parents love him. But there's just one catch: his computer is stock-full of porn sites.
Help! My Husband Thinks I'm Too... Modest?

I have been with my husband for almost three years. I cannot imagine myself with anyone else and I know we'll always be together, there's absolutely nothing to worry about with him. I share everything with him, exc…
Life Isn't Perfect: Comforting Your SO

When you're with someone, you try to enjoy all the moments and memories you share. The dates, the affection, the little things your SO does that puts a smile on your face. But, as we learn in life, not everything is r…