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Can You Choose Who to Love?

When I was in the 8th grade til the middle of my Sophomore year in high school I dated a guy named Jared. He was great and I was really lucky to experience a relationship with him because he was very respectful towards…
If You Had to Fight an Ex-Lover

The question is: Which of your old lovers would you like to meet in a bar fight? Let's see. I'm not sure any of my old boyfriends have the fighting instinct. They loved me too well; they would cower and call me ridiculo…
Lessons From the Domesticated Animal Kingdom

Just now I was sitting on the couch at my parents house, which is empty, thinking about relationships. And I looked over at my cat, Gretel, who had just been joined by our other cat, Hansel, and I've been watching them…
You Don't Choose Your Lovers

People can't, unhappily, invent their mooring posts, their lovers and their friends, any more than they can invent their parents. Life gives these and also takes them away and the great difficulty is to say Yes to life…
Why “There’s More Fish in the Sea” Actually Leads to Misery

When you’re with your significant other, and the relationship is not going as well people often will tell you “Don’t worry, there’s plenty of fish in the sea.” This statement is designed to help you get over your depress…
Do We Choose To Fall In Love?

Miss Walrus While lying in bed with my beau last night, I got this really strange feeling. For a moment, I felt unbelievably comfortable laying there with him...and then, once I realized how absolutely amazing I felt…
Dating the "Wrong" Guy

I've been in a relationship with this guy, Ted, for almost a month now. Our relationship is extremely rocky; filled with lots of ups and downs. We have a lot of little fights over the dumbest things, but I'm thinking tha…
Choosing the Right Type of Love

Would you rather be with someone who completes you or someone who loves you completely? It's a tough question. Especially when both options seem to be the fair end of the bargain, depending on which end you're coming f…
an awakening to city life in...xanga

The truth is, I'm a terrible person and a horrible lover in real life. Now I'm about to spill the beans out on this brand new page. You can read, and I'll allow you to judge too. Here's a low down on what's going throu…
Which Engagement Ring Should I Choose?

My boyfriend wants my opinion on the engagement ring he'll present me when the time is right. He picked out three different rings and wants to know my thoughts on them. I love all three and just can't decide which I li…