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Let's Have a Toast for the Douchebags (or, History Repeats Itself)

There's a quote I think about sometimes, particularly when I'm despairing. It's from the movie The Wedding Date: "Every woman has the exact love life she wants." While I don't necessarily agree, I do think that sometime…
Change Your Mindset...Because You Can't Change Your Man

So I have heard this from my girlfriends so many times, “If HE, would only change,” everything would be just fine, and “I know I can change him” and I’m really sick and tired of it. I&rsqu…
Changing Your Significant Other

One friend once told me a deep insight he learned about dating: "Men want women to stay the same, but they end up changing. Women want men to change, but they stay the same." I've definitely seen this played out.
Is Marriage So Last Millennium?

Ever date someone who said, "It's not that I don't love you, I just don't believe in the institution of marriage"? You probably thought they were BS-ing you because they just weren't that into you. And sure, that migh…
Being A Single College Girl IS All It's Cracked Up To Be!

So I'm in college right now at one of the greatest places in the world, New Orleans. We have great food, night life, and tons of cute boys. Yes, the boys here are wonderful. However, I have proactively chosen to remain…
3 Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Survives Change

This is a guest post from lovedetour's Shela Dean: Years ago, there was a TV commercial for Lipton soup. A child ran into the kitchen and asked his mom, who was standing over a steaming pot, “Is it soup yet?&rdqu…
I Love You, You're Perfect, Now Change

My first love was when I was 15. In some ways, it was all that plus a bag of chips. In other ways, it was a tough lesson in disguise. I first saw him at an ice-skating rink in Central Park. It was love at first sight be…
Dear Boyfriends: Please Don't Try to Change Me

I was taking my lunch break at work a few weeks ago when I spotted an issue of Rolling Stone from across the room. Naturally, I went to retrieve it.
Waiting on the Future

Do you wait for things? Not in the sense that you are waiting for a bus, or a certain e-mail to arrrive, but in the sense that you "wait for things to happen" in general. I was talking to a friend and she said that she…
L Dating Chronicle: Stop Dating Like A Girl And Start Dating Like A Woman

I am a 21 year old girl, and for years I have been dating like one. I have met a guy and in the first three dates have his whole character and the future of our relationship mapped out in my mind. I have jumped into bed…