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Digital Digital Get Down

I was thinking about relationships that exist on or come into existence because of the internet the other day. It seems to me that it is not uncommon for people of my generation to become close to, & even have rom…
Scandalish on Orgasms: "It feels like a cup filling up with water, & then exploding"

Here are instructions on how to comment anonymously if you need them. Nick & I were talking about orgasms the other day, & I said that I imagined (since I've never had one) that it was something like a cu…
Thoughts on Love Bites

I love nibbling gently, (or sometimes not so gently) biting my boyfriend when we fool around. I love it when he does it to me. I know exactly where I like to give & receive them, too. I'm squirming in my seat rig…
Would You Share Your Blog?

Nick and I had a huge talk about a bunch of things a couple weekends ago. I don't really know how to describe it without going on forever about it, but I will say this: It ended up in me sharing this site with him. I…
Studying Abroad While In A Relationship = Worst Idea Ever?

I'm considering studying abroad next fall. Studying abroad is something I've always wanted to do, because I feel like if I don't do it now (now as in, while I'm in college), I'll never get such an awesome opportunity t…
On Giving Second Chances: A Reply

A reply to Second Chances: Recipe for Heart Ache? So, normally I am not one for giving second chances, because once a person hurts me, I have no problem cutting them out of my life. However, recently, I gave a second ch…
The Word "Rape"

Rape is the act of forcing sex on someone who does not want it. I know that's not from a dictionary or anything, but that's the gist of it, in my opinion. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people misuse this word…
Thoughts During Sex

Some people fantasize during sex, others concentrate, and others shut down their brains so they can sit back and enjoy. What do you think about during sex? I try to just lose myself in the pleasure, and get my brain t…
Can You Respect a Casual Sex Partner?

I was talking to a friend of mine, and we were discussing whether or not one can respect their fuck buddy (or as I like to say it, 'buck fuddies', haha), or if their fuck buddy can respect them. My immediate reaction…
"You've Been a Very Bad Girl"

One thing the boyfriend & I are starting to do more in bed is talking dirty. My boyfriend was a little uncomfortable about it at first, because he felt like he was offending or degrading me by doing so, but honestl…