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Guys Don't Want to Date - They Want to "Hang Out"

Miss Reindeer I got a phone call the other day from B. Our date was well over a week ago and now he decides to call. There's a warning right there if I've ever heard one. First of all, I think our date actually went…
I'm A Nanny...And Guys Seem to Love It

Miss Reindeer When you're single, the bar scene can be kinda fun. Sometimes it’s totally sleaze-tastic, but most of the time it's pretty harmless. Recently, the most humorous thing I've found is how attractive some…
What Are Your Thoughts on First Date Sex?

Miss Reindeer Since about the middle of April I've been on three "first dates," all of which went pretty good and ended with end-of-the-night kisses and not much more. Okay, so I let the one guy (who I actually have a…
When A Normal Phone Call Turns Not So Innocent

Miss Reindeer Well, H. is out, guys. We have been texting and talking on the phone a fair amount the past week or so. We were talking on the phone the other night about what our plan was going to be for the weekend a…
Imagine What It'll Be Like When You Find The Right Person

Miss Reindeer Yesterday my friend K asked me about my ex-boyfriend out of nowhere. Specifically she asked me what he thought about my recent entries to Datingish and if he was mad. Well firstly I told her that he ha…
I'm Juggling More Than One Guy

Miss Reindeer For the first time I am voyaging into the world of dating multiple people at one time. I used to be one of the girls that put all her eggs in one basket - even if I was casually seeing a guy, I wouldn't…
Nitpicky Things That Are Complete Turnoffs

Miss Reindeer So as you know I've been talking to this guy, H. I like a lot of things about him, but there's one thing that is irking me a little bit. He's a horrific speller. I know that's really stupid and it is…
Are You Okay with Your Number of Partners?

Miss Reindeer Mine is 4. I have had sex with 4 men. At the age of 23, that's not too bad I don't think. But I'll be honest with you, I pretty much thought I was going to cap it off at 4. Well that is no longer the…
We're Not Serious, So Is This A Rebound Relationship?

Miss Reindeer The "rebound relationship" has a lot of negative connotations. People wonder if it's too soon, if you're confusing lust with love, if you're going to hurt the reboundee, etc. But I think if both people…
Bouncing Back After A Baaaaad Breakup

Miss Reindeer You like that alliteration? So suffice it to say, March 2009 was probably the most craptacular month of my entire life. The biggest contribution to that was being dumped by someone I thought I was go…