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You're My First Asian Girl!

My friend recently expressed her disgust with guys who feel the need to point out the fact that she is an Asian girl while they are trying to hit on her. It's as if they don't realize that mentioning they have a "thing…
When the Boyfriend's Parents are Racist

I've been dating my boyfriend for six months now. He comes from a very Christian white (Dutch) family, and they're big on the traditional nuclear family thing... and the Bible. He has siblings who've married and produce…
Are White Guys Who Like Asian Ladies Losers?

There's a stereotype being bandied about - one that may not be so current or clear on the radar, but one that I encountered and dealt with in my time in Japan. Are white guys who date and marry Asian girls losers? This…
Domestic Violence and Victim Blaming in the Asian Community

It's too much of a generalization, I'm sure, but I truly wish that more people were educated about domestic violence. Tonight, amidst our first Thanksgiving celebration, the police were called because a friend of the…
Attracted To Differences

I was born and raised in Hong Kong. When I was a kid and the British were still in charge, there were lots of white people living in Hong Kong. I always thought white people were more good looking and mysterious. They…
Insecure with His Usual Type

My SO and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. I feel that our relationship is really good. He is completely comfortable with me and his friends all love me. He is not a big fan of my friends except for a good two…
In Lieu of PDA, Couples Go Matchy-Matchy?

It's never surprising when Americans take fashion cues from Asia, but this latest fashion trend is one that I think I'd rather not hit the streets of New York City. In places where public displays of affection are con…
Asian Men = Cheaters?

So, for those of you who know about my crazy shenanigans with Japanese dudes already know the deal with me. Ok, so apparently it's not just me having trust and cheating issues with Japanese guys. A friend I know in th…
Sticking It with The Other Race

In regards to the post "Stick with Your Own Race" I understand how you feel exactly, but girlfriend, what are you worried about? Especially if your biggest problem is only "look downs"? I'm Asian and my boyfriend is…
Why I Like Asian Girls.

After reading a couple of posts about Asian women, I thought that some people might wonder exactly why. Seeing as I'm one of those guys, I'll attempt to explain. The first I'd like to mention, is dark/black hair.…