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The Politics of Getting Laid

After this, I want most of you to know that I am neither a relationship expert nor anyone's player or wingman. This is just me dishing advice from experience. One of my good comrades at Xanga sarcastically hinted at…
What is Your Dream Girl?

Guys, I know that you're imagining a beautiful, sexy, "hot" woman, when I ask you who your dream girl is. But what I really want to know is deeper than just that. When I imagine my dream guy I imagine a man who is so bl…
The First Key to Having a Healthy Relationship

The original source can be found here [x] Life can be good, it definitely has its highs and lows but it’s how we handle the highs and lows that make it or break it. What does this have to do with relationships? Ju…
YOU Are Beautiful

Am I fat? Am I ugly? Am I stupid? Am I hated? Am I a failure? Am I a loser? Questions. Questions we ask ourselves, questions others make us think about. The kind you ask yourself as you stare in your bathroom mirror, wo…
Once an Ultimatum, Always an Ultimatum

Ultimatums. I don't really understand them a lot of the time. When one poses some sort of compromise, their counterpart can easily claim it as an ultimatum. Here's what I mean: Ted and his girlfriend have been dating fo…
The Worst Thing I've Ever Done in a Relationship

I'm embarrassed to say this, folks, but I have broken up with a guy via text message. It sounds pathetic and cowardly, and, quite truthfully, it is. I was immature and frustrated, so I ended a relationship with a text.…
How to Keep a Guy (or Girl) for More Than 10 Days

I consider myself the kind of person who dates long-term and dates seriously. So, over the years, having been in and out of relationships, I have learned that the little things are more important than the big ones. The…
Four is Definitely a Crowd: Her Boyfriend's Mom Hangs Out with His Ex!

My friend, Tom, has this new girlfriend. Well, actually she's not so new-- it's been a few months already. His girlfriend, Kira, is great. She's funny, intelligent, confident, and she gets him. So, what's the problem?…
Relationships With Language Barriers

Since arriving in Germany at the beginning of the summer, I have fallen in love with a local. While my German has improved - much of that reason being my want to better communicate with him - the language can still be…
A Laundry List of Happy Things

In my opinion, the best way to fight breakup blues is to be as active as possible. So here's a list of ideas: - Simple: hanging out with friends, especially friends you haven't seen in a while. DON'T talk about the rela…