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Women: They Shouldn't NEED to Use a Guide to Understand You.
There's a certain phenomenon I've noticed in the internet world, particularly Xanga. A number of people have jokingly, or worse, seriously, written up guides to understanding what the female gender "really" means when t… -
How To Win My Heart
I'm curious as to how universal the following is. I've stayed away from specific gestures that I particularly like and have done more overarching themes. =) 1. Talk to me. Don't make small talk-- really talk to me. Let… -
Emotions Are Not Entirely Illogical
Many people talk about emotion and logic in a manner that suggests the two don’t match up, as if they are always distinct and separate. They assert that emotion has no basis in logic, and logic has no basis in emotio… -
I Kissed a Girl
Last night, I made out with one of my female friends. I do not regret the act; it will cause no problems. Neither of us like the other, I was explicitly given permission by my boyfriend, and it’s probably not goi… -
My Love is Not in Vain
Throughout my years of "romantic awareness," I have liked a fair number of people. Though I often stressed over them a good deal, nothing ever came of most of these crushes. I have never had a crush intentionally pla… -
Society's Relationship Expectations
I think our society places too much emphasis on relationships, both romantic and platonic. Among my peers, it often seems that romantic relationships are essential to happiness. Not only are they touted in media such a… -
The "Nice Guy" Doesn't Get the Girl Because....
How many times does one hear of a girl choosing a jerk over a self-proclaimed “nice guy”? Personally, I hear of this more often than makes sense. If the guy is truly as nice as he claims, and the other guy really is…


