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When a Crush Becomes an Affair

I'd never cheated before. I'd only slept with three girls, and I was in monogamous relationships with them all. But now, aged 25 years, I seem to have acquired myself a mistress.
Do Some People Go Too Far on Facebook?

I logged into my newsfeed today and saw one of the best things I have read all week: I wondered for a moment if she meant he'd slept with a slut ("the village bike") or an actual 17-year-old cycle. I imagine that both wo…
Literature Gave Me Unrealistic Expectations of Women

I read too much. This might sound like some crazy paradox: Surely reading is a positive thing, therefore how can one break the desired standard, and read too much? Well. Reading has given me lots of unrealistic expectati…
When You're In Love with Your Best Friend's Sister

My confession: I'm in love with my best friend's sister. If it is any consolation, (and yes, I'm grasping at straws here!) I didn't know she was his sister when we met. And if it works further in my favour: I wasn't real…