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Wearing Something Sexy for Your SO
Lingerie is something I didn't wear often in past relationships. If I did, it would be for a special occasion like Valentine's Day. Even when I worked in stores where I got free lingerie, I just put it in a drawer. Howe… -
Bloody Troubles
When I was little, I always wondered what my brother and dad were complaining about. "Ugh they must be on their period. Great." That dreaded week where they had to deal with their attitude. Me being a kid, I never under… -
Comfort Levels
Last night I went over to my boyfriend's house like I do every Wednesday. We watched The Walking Dead together, walked his dog, you know... the usual. Later on he went to the restroom and I followed because we were talk… -
So... What Next?
I started dating my boyfriend mid October 2011. That is simply four months with him! But we always joke about how in "our" time, it's been many months more. That the days apart amount to weeks and we mean it. Pretty che… -
Birthday Troubles
It's the month of December in which the holiday cheer is all around. It's also the month in which my boyfriend's and my birthday occurs! Mine on the 21st and his on Christmas day. We decided to share my birthday sinc… -
The Crazies in Dating
A recent post got me thinking about crazy girlfriends. Back in 2008 I dated "The Butcher" (he is an actual butcher so that was my nickname for him with my friends haha). He and I dated for nearly a year. I ended up bre… -
Response to Part II: He Said She Said: Abortion
This is in response to the recent post about abortions. I have got to say that it is amusing how people can say “just close your legs“ as a solution. Sounds easy enough. But let’s be real about this. P… -
First Love Dragging on For Too Long
In 2004 I started my first serious relationship (I was 18). He was my first for everything and I was his. Let's call him John. That relationship lasted for about two years and we broke up because he fell out of love he… -
One Car Too Close
I have been afraid of such an instance happening to me one day. Today it happened. I was driving home from work with a cheeseburger in hand because I hadn't eaten since breakfast. So as I am driving and stop at a light… -
Leftovers From an Ex
Today a friend of mine came to me in shock at what her boyfriend had just revealed to her. She couldn't believe it. Basically, the story goes like this: So a quilt that she has used on various occasions while staying wi…


