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Doin' Too Much?
I'm currently wondering about "doin' too much" to get the attention of the person you like. For example, too many phone calls, emails, or text messages to your crush. This is an important action to contemplate becaus… -
Breaking All the Rules
Today my ex-boyfriend and I had a conversation about his constant use of rules in dating. It wasn't him having rules that we disagreed on, but what I interpret as him breaking them all whenever he wants, to the poi… -
If Sex Was Curry...
I recently debated with a friend of mine about the "double standard" in dating and I think that this friend made an interesting point. I supposed that its a double standard when a girl is intimate with multiple guys an… -
Super Friend or Super Sleezy?
It is currently "Fresher Week" at my university which is basically a week of clubbing and pubbing for the incoming Freshman class. My guy friend, who I will refer to as "Super Friend", has been extra flirty with many… -
Are Short-term Relationships Worth It?
I am currently curious about short-term relationships and if they can be meaningful. This past March I was in a relationship with a guy I will refer to as "Craig". Craig and I knowingly became boyfriend and girlfrien… -
Would Batman Forgive the Joker?
There's a saying about dating that goes you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince/princess. Unfortunately on the quest for love there will always be those jerks who make our lives a little more complicated… -
The Art of Rejection in an Impersonal World
A few weeks ago I was walking home from work when a pretty good looking guy (obviously interested) approached me. We exchanged contact information and later that week met up to hang out. I will call this guy "Kombucha",… -
90% Luck, 10% Perspiration?!
A friend of mine once said that winter is the dating season because people are cold and want somebody to cuddle with. I don't have any statistical data on this claim , but I do know that nothing makes me contemplate bein…


