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For Datingish: Q&A with mynameisblueskye
As a man, I can't tell you one thing that a woman says that perplexes me more than "I want a man who is honest. A man who isn't a liar like all of the rest." Now, before I conduct a certain experiment, I'm going to tell… -
Haters Gonna Hate, Indeed
Perhaps it's like one person said, "You're nothing until you are hated on." I learned this the hard way when I posted three blogs and about one or two people from each blog labeled me a misogynist and/or a "slut shamer.… -
Why Do I Let the Woman Pay? Feminism
That's pretty much it. I pretty much have this rule for myself. If you want to go somewhere with me, I'll take you. Being the tightwad that I am these days, if you are financially secure, then you can pay. If you want… -
The Ideal Girl List
I seem to notice that anytime you ask some women what kind of person would they like to date, some people's answers are always kind of ambiguous. The answers range from what turns them on to the basic stuff. (The basic… -
Inequality in the Relationship Blogging Circuit
You know what I am thinking about right now? I'm thinking a lot about the disadvantages of having more women on Xanga. Specifically, I'm thinking about what usually happens on a blog right after someone breaks up with t… -
10 Reasons Why Some People Cheat
The thing that I learned in all my years of dating is that things can really go beautifully. Love is sweet and it is empowering, but like life, it can have its glitches. For some strange reason whenever a woman or man s… -
Bad Girls and the Girls That Think They're Good
This blog is an extension of a comment I left on a Datingish blog named Why I Chose the Bad Boy. Most guys know exactly why they date the bad girl: for the adventure and the excitement, for the sex, because they seem b… -
How My Dom/Sub Curiosity Piqued
I think it's safe to say that if it weren't for a certain girl, my sexual interests wouldn't have expanded further than vanilla love. (Since anal is pretty common now, it counts as vanilla.) Do any of you remember @ste… -
Ladies, Stop Faking It Please!
Ladies, we need to talk. Just so we can be clear about this, I'm talking about the ladies who have a habit of pretending that their men are better in bed than they really are. Now, today, I read about the token woman… -
A Message from The Maintenance Man
Hey, men. come here for a second. We got to talk about something that's very important. Now, I hear tell from your girls that you guys aren't treating your women right. Either that or you haven't been what you used to…


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