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Dreaming of Lost Love While Engaged!
I am engaged to a wonderful guy, and we're getting married in four months. He's everything I was looking for and more. However, I find myself still, occasionally, haunted by the ghosts of lovers past, and this is espe… -
Dressing Up for Girls
Recently my friends and I were talking about make-up, and I unthinkingly said, "Yeah, I wear it when other people expect me to." One of my guy friends gave me a quizzical look- he very clearly didn't get it at all. So I… -
Online Dating Nightmare!
So my friend (we'll call her Becca) recently had the kind of experience that horror stories and bad rom-coms are made of. She had just started seeing this guy (Matt) she met on Match, and he seemed nice - not her ideal… -
When a Boyfriend's Jealous - of YOU!
Hey girls, I know a lot of you have to deal with jealous boyfriends. These are guys who want to spend all their time with you, or don't like you hanging out with guy friends alone. But what happens when your guy is actu… -
I Have to Kiss Another Guy for Work, and I Don't Want to Cheat on My BF
Ok, I know I'm in a weird situation here, but could really use some feedback. I'm an actress, and I recently got an awesome part in a show. I am super excited, but my boyfriend tried out and didn't make it, so that's s… -
Do You Have to Be Financially Secure Before You Get Married?
I have a feeling most people have an opinion about this, but that many people don't even talk or even think about it. My boyfriend (of over a year) and I are this close to engaged. We're talking about [possibly] gettin… -
The Double Standard: A Different Perspective
So today I was reading a post on Lovelyish about a double standard. It occurred to me that the tone of the post complaining about the double standard was actually exacerbating the double standard itself. Let me explain.… -
Do You Stop a Friend's Dating Trainwreck?
So, I have this friend. Let's call her Ashley. She's a delightful girl, very boisterous, fun and sweet. But she can be a bit manipulative; she likes to test guys, and is fine with having them follow her around like pupp… -
Help! I'm in the Mood WAY More Than My SO
I'm in what I think is an unusual predicament. As a woman in a heterosexual relationship, society has taught me that my boyfriend is virtually always "in the mood." Typically I should have to fight him off, and if I… -
Chronically Single Friends
Every group of friends has them: the chronically single girlfriends*. Usually they spend a large percentage of their time whining about how they're always single. They really rain on their paired off friends' para…


