I'm not most women. I have some things in common with my gender, yes, but I'm not like most women. For some strange reason, though, when guys try to impress me, they do the cheesiest, stereotypical things! For exampl…

The other night, I was out at a bar with a girl I like "Amy" her friend "Katie" and some of their friends. There were about 7 or 8 people sitting at the table talking. Two of these friends are a couple, and they se…

I have always said that if you want to know about a man, it doesn't hurt to try and ask an actual man. But I wonder whether "Sex Tips For Straight Women From a Gay Man" by Dan Anderson is on or behind the lines of what…

I am really tired of having to repeat the phrase "it's complicated", because maybe it isn't, maybe I just don't get what is going on, but it's really rather simple. So I am asking the guys out there for their input a…

Dear Insecure Girl,First off, I would like to apologize for calling you an insecure girl but I thought calling you a crazy, jealous, overdramatic girl was a bit too much.From the beginning, I did not want to be your f…

I feel like the female portion of the population doesn't understand the joy that overcomes the male psyche when he sees a pair of perfectly shaped boobs. I was talking to, who I believe is, the hottest girl in my eng…

We want to be good friends. We want our friends to be happy, we want the best for them --but sometimes, this leads us to constantly set aside our own wants and needs in our attempts to ensure the happiness of our f…

The days and nights start to get colder, the leaves are starting to change color and the sun seems to sleep in later than it used to. Welcome to the beginning of the autumn season. Everyone seems to fall in love or st…

While checking my mail on Yahoo the other day, K and me saw this news story: "40 Things You Should Know About Sex by Age 40" I was reading, they were pretty interesting, and then I got to number 11: "11. Honesty: N…

A few days ago, I came across an interesting article in am New York about how some couples live apart even after marriage. These LAT couples (Living Apart Together) make up about 3 percent of married couples in the U.S…

Lately I've been wondering if I have a "type" of guy. I'm not talking about the type you might consciously choose, but the type you attract.After many sleepless nights deep in thought, I realized that all of the guys tha…

I know a lot of girls who get along with guys better and vice versa, but there are always those people who have a problem with that. I personally rather be friends with guys because most guys don't like drama. Girls a…

I was discussing whether or not I was "kinky" with someone the other day. I wasn't even sure of the answer to that. It made me think -- what exactly does it mean to be kinky? What does kinky even mean? So, I looked it…

And hey sweetie, Well I need you here tonight, And I know that you don't wanna be leaving me Yeah, you want it, but I can't help it, I just feel complete when you're by my side. - If It Means A Lot To You, A Day To…

I am told constantly that cheaters can't reform. Also I am told that those that are afraid of commitment won't commit. Every single day I hear this and every single day I wonder: I wonder what my wife thinks? The trut…

So I didn't know friend-flirting had be named and defined before a somewhat recent Datingish post. Well, now that I know what it is, I can safely say that I have fallen for a friend-flirter.I think friend-flirting i…

Last night, I had a dream about my ex-boyfriend Nick. My relationship with Nick ended a few years ago and was, in a word, a disaster. I won't say that Nick is a bad person (although sometimes I think he is) but Nick…

My SO and I have a very regularly active sex life. A very healthy one at that. I have had people tell me "you cant have sex... your pregnant!" Well yes, I'm pregnant. And yes I have sex. How else do you think I ended…

As the season of summer drifts away with sea, and the vast beaches that once soaked up large amounts of people now lay empty. The cold hint of winter flows through the autumn coming air, it's been one month since you…

There's something I always wondered: You get into a new relationship, you meet that persons' friends, and they meet yours... But what about the leftovers in relationships, such as the friends? do you keep them or lose…

In response to the post "Hot Girls Are Crazy, Deal With It!": My girlfriend has assaulted me (struck me twice with her fist on my head and bitten me once), threatened to make false accusations against me, threat…

So the other night I was hanging out with a girl. It was our first night and the evening went really well. There was no dead air at all and we had plenty to talk about. At one point we came to the subject of drama. She…

I think that new relationships always inspire me to collect love songs. These 5, if you can't tell, are my personal choices for falling in love. 1. Dashboard Confessional: "Stolen" How could you not love this song?…

Do girls live off of drama? Do they create situations where drama will ensue just so they have something to complain about or talk about with their girl friends? In my recent post "Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last?" s…

Is it possible to have everything you wanted, and still not be satisfied? Well relationship wise I mean, of course. I always wanted a boyfriend who would be my "prince charming" you know open the doors for you, compl…

image source I was waiting for my SO to bring me some much needed breakfast this morning, when I fell into a Google coma. After a series of searches and clicks, I came across a site that listed a bunch of sex…

In the three year relationship I've been in I've had the occasional fights over serious or stupid things, every couple has gone through it. My SO knows me too well when we come to fights that I usually don't back down,…

Pink...She's tough and sexy. I love that she can sing too.

As a rule of thumb, I don't think you should have sex if you are unable to muster up the courage to purchase condoms, birth control, or a pregnancy test. You need not only be physically and emotionally mature when ha…

As soon as I stepped into the cab, I couldn't help but notice his whole "bad boy" era. His whole body was covered in tattoos, he had a bad ass earring and a smug look on his face. During the first few minutes of my r…

Before you get married, its good to get all those insecurities out of the way; however, its not always easy bringing them up. Before my fiance got back together two years ago, we had a one year break. In which we bot…

I am currently in a long distance with “Sam.” By saying I’m in a long distance, I mean by me being in the US and Sam being in Europe. Not to mention, this is Sam’s first long distance as well. Most of my relations…

A while back I went on exchange with 20 other people from my school, only one of whom I knew. I went just to test out my language skills, have a bit of a holiday, and have some fun. I didn't expect to met the guy who wou…

P.B. Fitzwater once wrote; “Character is the sum and total of a person's choices.”In today's world, we love our choices because, basically, choices come along with freedom and democracy and should they be violated; Actio…

I'm so torn. I feel that I've truly lost a friendship that was near and dear to me for the last nine years. Most of my friends have come and gone, used and abused our friendship, however my friend Steve has always been…

There are so many different definitions of what losing your virginity would consist of. For me, losing my virginity would mean being penetrated, anywhere. Doesn't matter if one or the other climaxed, but the simple fa…

It all starts at a bar. The music is too fast and the room is too dark. I stroll to the bar and offer my friends a drink. I turn my back on the bartender and they all take turns giving me an embrace. I missed my fri…

I'd love to be able to say I base what I know about good love relationships off of what I've learned from my parents relationship, but it isn't true. What I know about good relationships has come from my aunt and unc…

Just got home from a date..... it was an awesome date... til the ride home. The date started out as the other three or four before had: go to Bridgestreet, see a movie... Afterwards, we went to Jones Valley to Chef's…

Sometimes, when you have courage, people will say, "You have heart." I was with a friend today, who opened my eyes to a very widely known problem with girls and guys nowadays. Why is everybody so darn shy? This fri…

I'm starting to grow tired of feeling lonely. My husband has been gone since Friday and all I can think about when I go to bed alone is that it's going to be like this the rest of my life (or at least the rest of the…

I've been reading a lot of research that talks about how divorced parents can affect a child's future relationships. The reason I'm interested in this is because my parents recently told me that they are getting sepa…

So the other day, my friend and I were discussing how text messaging is ruining our love lives. I sometimes feel I can express myself better via text so the other day, I texted the last guy I was seeing that I was mad…

So many young people are moving out of the house. I mean I'm young. I just turned18 and I'm still in high school, but I wouldn't mind moving in with my boyfriend right about now. But I do think it would be a lot of wo…

image source As mentioned in my previous entry, I am predicting a cascading crisis with my parents in the near future on the issue of my dreaded single-dom. This past weekend while visiting my parental units, my father…

Apparently in Europe they are soon going to have available 70 or so different sized condoms. In the states, the FDA doesn't allow very small or very large condoms, and supposedly the Magnums are just slightly larger…

My boyfriend & I have been together for almost a year. We don't think we've ever seriously fought. We've jokingly fought, and come sort of close to fighting, but I'm not sure if I would say that we've ever had a r…

I will admit, I am a very jealous person. but something that I've heard and always keep in mind is "when you are jealous of someone, you are putting them above you." I am also a person with alot of pride and to admit…

My best friend is a beautiful tan blonde with captivating blue eyes. I am the opposite with my dark brown hair, dark eyes and porcelain skin. For a while I wanted to be her so I dyed my hair blonde and got green con…

It has always been my dream to date a celebrity, but their stunning good-looks intimidated me. But after looking at these embarrassing yearbook photos, I feel slightly better about myself. Here are my favs: Would…

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML". H…

During my free time, I enjoy getting hammered drunk and making poor decisions. While I try to keep these activities separate from my love life, according to my older wiser friend, I am not. He told me that the reason tha…

Would you let your daughter or son spend the night at her boyfriends or girlfriends house ? Or would you assume that they where having sex that night? I recently asked my mother if I could spend the night over my bo…

Major issue. My best friend just transferred to the same college as me this year. I was so excited. I imagined things would be just like in high school again when we could finish each others sentences and could talk a…

This morning, I was reading through my email and I came across one that my best friend (let's call her X) sent me. It essentially said that X lied about not dating my ex-boyfriend (let's call him Y) because she didn't…

Do you ever feel like fireworks are a couples thing? I know I do. Tonight we had fireworks around the block where I live. And I've always felt like going to see them was a couples thing to do. I've never had anyone t…

I'm sure everyone knows what it's like to be addicted to something. I'm not talking about substance or alcohol. Unless you we're addicted to such things, but I'm talking about anything really. Chocolate, ice cream, pi…

I'm pretty angry right now, and I have been for the past week, a couple days ago my friends and I went out to eat and catch up basically. So while we were sitting down and chatting, one of my girl friends' asked all o…

In my eyes, there are people who remain friends with their exes and there are the people who try their best to cut their exes out of their lives.I cut my exes out of my life. Honestly, I do this not because I believe w…

Would you ever buy condoms at a discount store? I was at a discount store the other day because I wanted to get some disposable containers for work. I figured, things at discounted prices are usually not the best quali…

Controversial title? Oh yes. Controversial post? Not really, but I'll let you decide that. I was walking out of a building today and held the door open for the man who was exiting behind me. I turned slightly to l…

People underestimate silence. People tend to try to escape silence through noise and music, their channel for escape. Ironically, silence makes the loudest noise a mortal can hear. It's a clear cut piece. The one that…

The guy I'm dating is a catch. He really is. We have been together for 4 years, met in college and now live together. He is extremely attractive, caring, sweet, smart, funny, motivated...I could go on and on. I kn…

A young white male is brutally beaten for dating a young black woman, almost to a point of death. CNN writes, "If blacks in Buffalo (NY) in 2009 are acting like whites in Selma in 1959." Are there still double stand…

So, I've been surfing the internet looking for inspiration for a blog. I came across an article from a guy's point of view of reasons why he won't commit to a relationship. I found it absolutely ridiculous. Here are some…

My kid sister, "Amanda," and I was having a "girl talk" a few days ago. I asked her if her boyfriend ever cheats on her, would she forgive him and take him back? She said, "No," and I thought, "Smart girl." And the…

I know a handful of people in their 20s who are still virgins, myself included. However, most of them are not specifically waiting until they are married to lose their virginity, but until they find the right person.…

I think I was a bit of a hopeless romantic once. I analyzed everything, down to the most diminutive of details, and I found meaning in all that empty space. I loved the idea of The One, of Someday, and I thought and ta…

That's a hard question to answer, obviously. I tend to think about love and other abstract concepts that deal with human society and the psyche just like the average person yet I can't always put what I think into wo…

It never really ends, does it? The desperate need to be near the person who plagues your mind day and night, never truly fades. Whether you're 14 or 45, "crushing" on someone never really changes, and you can't call i…

You think you know someone through your first impression of them. The hardcore, ex-drug addict partier turns out to be the biggest softy-sweetheart you've ever met. On the other hand, the church-going, "I can do no wr…

Though I have no such problems with cheaters or ever met one (I may, but I just didn't know the story), it does seem to strike me as though, if you were ever a cheater, then you'll always be a cheater. Would this p…

My fiance is in the Army and is being deployed in about three- four months. In the Army things are fast paced and you live day to day. We have only been dating for four months but know that our relationship is the re…

I’m a guy, and therefore most of my friends are guys. Sometimes when were out bonding doing all manner of manly things like slaying dinosaurs with our bare hands and vanquishing the evil goblin that is Martha Stewart…

Ever had that one friend who was in a relationship you knew wasn't good for them? I'm going to call her "Sady," now Sady was a good girl, we knew each other since elementary school and she was the most beautiful perso…

Cute or Creepy? The choice is yours. If I was walking down the street and saw my face plastered on a pole... I'm actually not sure what my reaction would be. What would you do?

Oh, no he didn't! --- Let me rewind...So I've been seeing this guy for about five months. We've had our ups, our downs, our stupid arguments, our amazing makeups, and everything else in between. And through all of th…

I've been thinking about how guys and girls in these days have a hard time being direct and getting to the point. If you like us you like us, and I'll either like you back or not. I know that the question is easy to as…

I want to stop and give you all a round of applause. In the past two weeks alone, we've had Angel_Cross19 sharing her story of abuse, extraordinaryspeck@xanga touching on discrimination and utoppia@xanga questioning…

My boyfriend of a year and I are going through some big problems. I don't know what to do anymore, and it's killing me. I feel like I've given up my whole life for him, and I've always been okay with it. Since we sta…

I've grown up thinking people should have only one significant other, and I've had the naive view that infidelity in relationships was fairly uncommon. Studies, statistics and friends who have kept me up all night sev…

Through previous conversations, I've been informed that there is a difference between romantic flirting and "friend-flirting". I have misread many encounters with previous girls because of this; only another reason to…

Have you ever thought you were heartbroken; but weren't until it actually happened? I have. I thought that when I broke up with my ex boyfriend (it wasn't anything serious, but I was young) that I was heartbroken…

Dear Mr. Lying Man-Whore, I just wanted to thank you for being the dirty, cheating liar that you are. I can't imagine what my life would have been had you not entered my life. I wouldn't have wasted my US OPEN ti…

I recently had my blog "Men Want Women Who Look Like This!", posted up a couple days ago, as I was skimming through the throng of "Good for you," "Kick his ass," "That ain't cool," comments, I noticed one that really…

Trust. There are quite a few opinions of what this is, but I'm just going to point out a few, since I think these are important in a relationship.Definition:1) Firm reliance on the integrity, ability, or character of…

Esquire magazine compiled a list of 75 things men don't know about women, as dictated by celebrities. Here are some of my favorites:"We love the fact that it takes you only twelve minutes to get ready for anything, be…

It didn't take long after my graduation from college to realize something was different about my relationship. At first, it seemed like the same standard issue: miscommunication. Surely this had nothing to do with the…

I pride myself on being me, regardless of what's fashionable or how I'm expected to behave as a young lady. I don't see the value in marketing myself as something that I'm not. I am smart and I don't hide it in attempt…

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the last year and a half. We've been through a lot together, with him being un-employed for about 8 months of our relationship, me supporting him and helping him, never…

I am currently curious about short-term relationships and if they can be meaningful. This past March I was in a relationship with a guy I will refer to as "Craig". Craig and I knowingly became boyfriend and girlfrien…

My fiancé and I recently moved in together. Naturally, we’re quite comfortable with each other, and I don’t think we’ve kept too many of our odd personal quirks from each other. However, there was one thing I wasn’t qu…

Miss Rhino When I asked my friend, Gail Miller as she prefers to be called, what she was doing, the last thing I expected her to say was writing a hand-written letter to her crush. "Four pages and counting," she sa…

Freud's talked about this. Almost every magazine talks about this. You have your Good Boys, Bad Boys, Nerdy Boys, Stalker Boys (which can also be interchanged with Scary). You're attracted to someone who looks like Mom o…

Miss Antelope One of my friends is 23. She still has her V-card (aka never done the deed). Personally, I respect that. I had mine until I was 20. It's not that she's waiting for marriage; she just doesn't feel like…

Miss Walrus In love, I used to feel felt like I was doomed to play the "lower hand." Cause I did. Every time. Because of this, I developed a chronic fear that I was destined to be the chaser, the underdog, the…

Perhaps I'm cold-hearted. But I always pour out the contents of my wallet into the tin cans with one-legged puppies featured on them, and I never once have failed to hear the beauty in Celine Dion's "My Heart Will G…

Dear Male Population:I know that more than likely in your past, there has been at least one woman that has screwed you over. You might have had girls that left you because your car wasn't good enough, that bitched at you…

I have decided that my four best friends must approve of any guy before I get serious about him. I know what most will people think when they hear this. "She the kind of girl who doesn't have her own mind." I know…

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months. Of course, this is no new story...it started out amazing. He was the most caring, sweet, and wonderful guy I have ever met. But I suppose "the honeymoon phase" rea…

Miss Rhino TextsFromLastNight: (773): our cab driver is having phone sex. Phone sex is like breast-feeding. It's something that should always be done in private. No exceptions. But there are always those dirty, exhi…

The iPhone has done it again. I'm going to have to replace the question "there's an app for that?" to "there isn't an app for that?" At this point, it's the things that Apple hasn't thought of already that surprise me t…

Disclaimer: The first sentence is just to give you an idea of what my single life tends to be like, not to brag. Every time I end up being single, I have anywhere from 3 to 5 men chasing after me. One of them this tim…

Two days ago, I hugged my boyfriend warmly for the first time in a long while. My head rested lightly in the nook of his arms, as I took his familiar scent and smiled at the pleasant memories. When we finally pulled aw…

Miss Giraffe I was talking to my friend recently, and she mentioned that once, she was with her mother and she said that her boyfriend had sold his unlimited MetroCard to her for a reduced price (I think there was a wee…

Labor Day Weekend has begun! How are you wishing the summer farewell? Personally, I am off to Dewey Beach in Delaware for a weekend of debauchery with my friends. And leave it to Mother Nature to tease us with perfe…

Is it cheating if you are in a relationship and you decide to hang out one on one with someone who likes you but you don't like them? The situation is Girl has a boyfriend, but another Guy, who has "liked" her ever si…

Yesterday, as I walked across campus to my Intro. to Fiction class, I thought about how much I wanted him here with me. He, being my boyfriend of about two months, is only an hour away. That hour is just enough to ma…

According to my former roommate, who introduced me to the term, “brain sex” occurs when mutual tastes and interests spark an attraction between two people. The difference between brain sex and actual sex, apart from…

So, one of the biggest complaints a girlfriend has about a boyfriend is, "He never communicates with me, all he wants is sex." And from the boyfriend about a girlfriend, "She always wants to talk about our feelings,…

I have never said 'I love you' to a girl ever, even as friendly 'I love you' sort of way. I never understood how someone could say those words and actually mean them. I grew up in a very broken home with my parents ne…

My brother is a serious mama's boy. He's the youngest and the only boy among two older sisters. J is almost 30 years old, and my mom comes over to his condo from time to time to clean, do laundry and supply him with…

Hailey Glassman Match.com Profile Video - watch more funny videos This girl is really getting a bad rap. I'm hoping the real Hailey is classier than Funny or Die's interpretation, even if it was extremely comical. So…

My SO and I have been dating for about a year now. He constantly tells me that he loves me and that there's no one else for him. At one point we talked about getting married and having children. All in all, he was the…

My friend has just begun his first year of law school, and because I am thirsty for knowledge, I requested that he teach me one cool thing a day. Yesterday, he told me about a case he was learning about. Whether it was…

Is it worth the pain one may suffer waiting on someone else to commit fully, once and for all to you? I'm actually on the other end of the story, I'm the one who would not commit. I just couldn't. This past year I we…

The idea of romantically or sexually thinking about or even longing for a best friend of the opposite (or same) sex is nothing new in the dating world. We see this situation come up in the lyrics of Taylor Swift songs…

I had an argument with my SO the other day because he had brought up that his father was checking out other girls, and that he had felt uncomfortable by it. So I asked him if it offended him because his father had been…

As I hung out with the guy I like a bit more...I noticed he mooches off his friend a lot. We always hang out with friends, but I hardly ever see him pay for himself. This got me thinking, if I were to pursue him in the f…