Mary Roach, author of "Bonk," talks about the science of orgasm in this clip. This video is 20 minutes long but well worth it. For those of you who can't watch it (and fair warning, there are lots of references to anatom…

Okay, so the music is a little grating - I can only take so much recorder - but overall, adorable! This makes me want to leave Post-Its all over my BF's room. Have you ever flirted unconventionally and/or with the hel…

So, here's my problem, and I may be blowing it out of proportion: my boyfriend does every single thing for his friends, but when it comes to me, it's whatever. Take today, for example: Last night we went to our friend's…

Seeing that I'm in a LDR, it seemed appropriate that my first real blog be about this. Over my days spent reading Datingish when I first got into a relationship with my current boyfriend, I felt like I needed a lot of he…

My BF and I went on a trip about a month ago to celebrate our anniversary. During the trip, we were intimate but didn't have intercourse because we have decided to keep that out of our relationship (we are waiting). He p…

An arranged marriage is a marriage arranged by someone other than the couple getting wedded, curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship. Such marriages had deep roots in royal and aristocratic families around the wo…

Miss Gorilla Okay, so I get that there is a testosterone overdose going on and that some men feel the need to prove their masculinity, but what is up with the constant need to battle it out? What happened to talking…

This is pretty much a response blog to Why We Are Waiting to Have Sex. If you haven't read the blog (or don't plan to) the author basically talks about the reasons why she personally feels she and her significant other a…

Miss Gorilla I love my boyfriend, but there is no doubt in my mind that we can be a bad influence on each other. While he can be my main source of inspiration, sometimes he inspires me to do things that I know aren't for…

For over a year, I have been in an open relationship, you may say, with a certain someone. I can honestly say I have never felt so comfortable with someone, especially a guy, in such a long time. We connect so well, it's…

Alas, crushes don't often last. We move on and they move on...and life goes on. Here's what some of Team Datingish's crushes have been doing since breaking hearts back in the day: All throughout middle school I had…

There are too many questions that beget this question.... Never mind how long the relationship has been, the reason for suspicion, the overactive hormones and such and such... I think the ultimately it boils down to tru…

It's not every day I have the chance to have awkward conversations with two of my ex-boyfriends. I'll leave them nameless, though they both read my blog. It was like having your brother have to give you "the talk". N…

Can men and women ever be just friends? Harry and Sally answered that question with a solid NO! and a screaming fake orgasm at a diner table. But seriously, can we?I mean, it's a bit ridiculous to assume that just becau…

Mudkiwi sounded off on the virginity debate and brought up something I hadn't thought of: I am staying a virgin until after marriage. My reason's are for…

Miss Rhino "Take a shot at finding true love in this free online dating simulation." Perfect. I could test out my dating skills on the internet and see how I do before I get out there in the real world. I picked out…

Well I've been dating my boyfriend since my junior year in high school and it's going on two years. Like, don't get me wrong - he is amazing, and there's no doubt that I love him. It just seems like lately he's changed,…

I like most other functionally thinking human beings, wish I had all the answers. I wish I knew everything about love and life, but the truth is we can't have all the answers. My story begins with a boy and ends with h…

via MyFox Boston: An Oklahoma woman has pleaded no contest to trading sex for a box of $30 snack chips. Police said Lahoma Sue Smith, 35, admitted to making the deal with the man, who said he was a Frito-Lay employee. Of…

I'm going to make this short and sweet: Guys, when you tell a girl, "You make me want to be a better person," what do you mean? Just because I play an active role in your life you want to become philanthropic and save t…

The other day, Miss Gorilla and I were talking about a friend of hers who claims to have kissed over 150 girls. I said I was pretty sure I could count the number of guys I'd kissed on two hands and possibly a foot (which…

A lot of times, when we meet people and find out something about their past...or present, we have a choice of taking the good with the bad, or just ditching them all together with a certain fear of being wrapped up in wh…

Miss Gorilla Okay, so I know this sounds somewhat shallow, but when I started dating my boyfriend I was convinced that his wardrobe needed a makeover. I'm a big advocate of wearing clothes that express individuality an…

My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties, and we've known each other for a decade. We've been dating exclusively for much of that decade, and we've yet to have sex. My friends are aghast - "how could you wait SO LONG…

So, I met this guy at a party. He's decent, nice, funny, cute. We got each other's emails, Facebook, mobile number - all just after one day of meeting. But here's the problem. When he talks on the phone, he just reminds…

So emails between Governor Mark Sanford and his Argentinian mistress have leaked. I was pretty curious - Meredith Vieira read excerpts from them on the Today Show dryly - and found some online. I was expecting something…

I'm going to the lady doctor soon and thought I would fill out the required forms early so I could be in and out more quickly. I downloaded the form online and started answering questions. Gender, last period, allergies,…

Okay, so my ex-boyfriend is really driving me insane... We went out for ten months, then he randomly broke up with me in March, I believe, and since then he hasn't left me alone.. and his friends keep prank calling me,…

Miss Walrus There's just something I find ridiculously irresistible about "bad" guys...& it's not even the tattoos or piercings or even the super-sexy long locks (um, just me?). It's the attitude. I'm not sure wh…

The BF and I went out of town this past weekend and visited the city where he went to college. He showed me around, introduced me to his friends from back in the day and we had a great time. We planned to have dinner Sa…

Before I'd ever begun my first ever relationship, I wasn't the jealous type or anything that I am now. It makes me very annoyed and drained to think that I am like this and I want to just stop. Here's the thing: My BF a…

Miss Walrus So I have this friend (really) who is involved in a situation that I think a lot of us have been through before. She met a new guy who she absolutely adores. She says he has a great personality and they…

Miss Rhino I can safely say that sixteen and pregnant is something I’d never want to be, but after watching MTV’s new reality show, aptly titled “16 and Pregnant,” I thought to myself, hey, that might not be so bad.…

Or are there exceptions? I ask because I have a friend who is not exactly GREAT when it comes to treating guys right. Usually I don't care because 1. I don't know the guy, or 2.I think he's kind of a douche and he deserv…

I've always told myself not to date in the workplace, I've been through that once and I'm almost making a mistake doing it again. This girl and I went to watch "The Hangover" as a friendly "hangout" but it turned into us…

A friend of mine was telling me about her weekend last Sunday, about how she got so many phone numbers from guys, and how she threw them all away….wait, what? I understand her getting all dressed up and going out to cl…

Thanks to those of you who participated in our discussion yesterday! Looks like the end result was pretty close - most of you thought that Chris should do jail time and coming in a close second, those of you who said…

Miss Gorilla and I were talking about waiting today...we both agree that we'd want to live with a person before we got married and that waiting for marriage was noble, but not something either of us is interested in doin…

One thing I tend to do is to think in big pictures. When people are being grossed out by a specific event, I marvel at how it relates and contributes to the rest of society. For example, let's look at the classic i…

So long story short, I lost the promise ring he gave me. I feel horrible. Like I don't deserve a guy like him and I should go jump into a gutter. I told him about it, and he said "It's fine." Although he's saying that s…

Basically, I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year. I went through an awful lot before we got together and lost quite a few friends along the way. Recently though, we've had a rough patch, and I considered ha…

I always thought men with kids were sexy. There's nothing more attractive than a tall, dark and handsome (or even a short, light and not-so-handsome) man delicately holding a child in his strong arms. Men in their ru…

My boyfriend and I have been together for four years and six months. We have been living together for three years and eleven months. We have a wonderful trusting, monogamous relationship; we are best friends, we have a b…

I am not here to read responses about how jealous I am that my ex is now engaged and that I wish it was me...because I am so glad it was NOT me. If he were to propose to me only after 4 months or so, I would say hell t…

Am I the only person out there who does not enjoy kissing? I don't know why, I just don't like it. I never really have. I tolerate it. It is very very rare that it is enjoyable, and that was with one guy, who wasn't even…

Many a times, I've wondered what makes a date leave an impression? And what will happen in a date to make the guy want to take you out again and again? A book I've glanced over told me that guys go on so many dates so…

My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past three months. We were seeing each other for three months before we became official. We also had a really strong friendship in the last year or so before we got together.…

Miss Rhino "Not only does he live over 700 miles away, not only will I most likely never see him again, not only was he the WORST KISSER in the history of this world, but he is STALKING ME against my will!" A real w…

Miss Antelope I was listening to the radio in my car the other day and I raised the volume when I heard the announcer discussing "Single=Skinny". The announcer went on about how people who are single are more likely…

There's a guy. I am attracted to him for many different reasons. He's not the kind of guy to wear scented stuff trying to actually put on a fragrance. But he has this smell that's amazing. It's really light. I think it's…

I just recently found out that my boyfriend is a fan of talking dirty. How did I come about this revelation? Well, we were hanging out and fooling around and things got... heated, but he told me I wouldn't get sex unle…

I had a very open and honest relationship with my boyfriend of 3+ years. Despite his charm and good looks, I always felt that he was genuinely a good guy, and I could trust him. About a month ago, through some interact…

I was talking to my friend the other day, we'll call her H. H was telling me about how she recently starting seeing a guy (D) exclusively, after having multiple casual relationships with other guys. Apparently she's not…

In my history of dating, I have dated 4 men. The last one being my current boyfriend. In my first 3 relationships, everything was the whole head-over-heels crazy initial love. It felt amazing. After a while, things would…

My question for all you readers out there is this:Should anything you find out about your significant other's past, no matter how it comes to your attention, affect your relationship with him or her now, in the present?I…

At a team meeting, the Datingish ladies started talking about a photo morpher link they'd seen where you can combine two people's photos and see what the spawn would look like. This led to hours (!) of fun on MorphThing…

So there's this guy I recently met in college that I think I find myself attracted to. I'm not sure if he feels the same way, but there are moments when I think he does. I think that his body language is one clue that…

Hello Datingish fans! I'm going to try and make this short and sweet. I have been with my fiancé for almost six and a half years. We have been to hell and high water. I do mean through everything together. Moving on, so…

I was recently told that I can take a beating. I mean sure I've taken a beating physically, anyone seeing me play sports has seen that. But I am talking about emotionally. My heart has been broken in so many ways by…

We all have plans. We tell our friends, "I'm going to do this and I'm going to be that." Have you ever been that person? We all hate that person. That one guy/girl that makes you feel like shit despite the fact that you…

There are tons of talks about who wears the pants in the relationship. But what does this really mean? Is there supposed to be a dominant force in a relationship? or are both people supposed to make equal decisions? I k…

This happens to me a lot. I just didn't realize what it was until now. A good guy friend of mine is obsessed with me, and it's really starting to creep me out. We met about five months ago at school. We had the same cla…

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML".…

For the record, the definition of transsexual from Merriam-Webster is "a person who psychologically identifies with the opposite sex and may seek to live as a member of this sex especially by undergoing surgery and hormo…

Yesterday I went to the DPS (that's what they call the DMV in Texas) to get my learner's permit renewed so I can take driving lessons again so I can get my driver's license. (The story associated with me not having my li…

Miss Rhino A girl walks into a bar and says to the bartender: "You're cute. Wanna get out of here?" Meanwhile the guy who drove the girl to the bar and is currently holding her jacket and purse sighs and resigns himsel…

Here's a new way to see who the top contributors on the site are from this week! Ooh, ahh, shiny. (when this post gets bumped down from the top slot, this arrow will be pointing toward nothing in particular, ha!) So…

Not sure if this has been discussed before, but I think this might lead into a good debate. I was watching "The Doctors" and during the previews for today's show, they were promoting that they'd be discussing this. So…

I read a really interesting NYTimes article a while ago that made never want to get married - it's a quick read and has some points I hadn't thought of. Here's a selection: Married men and women, on average, have sex wi…

…but I never thought it would happen to me.I was fairly young when my dad decided I needed to take defense lessons to protect me from the criminals lurking for the next female to make their prey. I thought he was being…

via UniqueDaily: "Mmm, your lips are so soft...and they taste like..." "uh...Cheetos?" Would you ever buy this, assuming it's real? That's a dealbreaker, ladies. It should be noted that I would absolutely wear th…

Have you ever been in a relationship that was just based on games? Like he won't text you unless you text first, or if you don't text him for a while, he texts you just to make sure you still care. Have you ever been in…

As I was sitting here tonight listening to him beg me to get out of the house and come see him, I decided to let my story out. I am seeing a married man and have been, off-and-on, for almost three years now. It's a long,…

Coming soon (tomorrow): first date chronicles! It's when you don't know what the other person is thinking, whether or not you like him or her and if this is actually a date. Delightful. Anyway, one side of the story is…

Something has really been bothering me over the past month. My sister has been hanging out with this guy she knows for about three years. I think she hangs out with this guy more than her BF. She lives with her BF when…

Recently I broke up with a guy who basically swept me off my feet. I do not want to get into too many details, but the breakup was not pretty. We both cried together and then attempted the "friendship" route. It isn't wo…

Perhaps I'm behind on blogs, but I'm surprised I haven't heard anyone admit or talk about this in a blog just yet. I'm sure the most of you know that I am pansexual, which means that there are two people I can easily lov…

Miss Walrus I think I might actually be in the norm with this one: According to a new study published in the journal Personality & Individual Differences, both men and women prefer the opposite sex to make a "direc…

Ten months. That's how long I asked him to wait. In ten months, it will all be official.I hated how school just started. It felt as though I only had two days of summer vacation instead of two months of it. It wasn't eno…

Dr. DatingishMy BF of almost five years STILL does not stick up for me. He is a very relaxed person who has never gotten into a fight and never did much as even raise his voice at me. Some drunk GUY that we know shoved…

Miss Rhino Meeting the parents is an age-old tradition that is gut-wrenching and exhilarating at the same time. It means your SO is into you, this much you know for sure; otherwise he wouldn't be taking the time to int…

I'm currently twenty years old, yet I feel like I'm much older than I really am. Is there anyone else who feels this way? Or do I need to reflect before you make a decision? Honestly, only a couple days ago did I officia…

Scott, my current/possibly ex-boyfriend and I began dating about 6 months ago.  Before that we were really good friends for quite some time, and then started randomly hooking up, and then became an official couple.  Abou…

Several of my very good friends consist of a group of Polynesian guys. Before I met my husband, they were the men I turned to when I was tired of the dating roller coaster. I could always count on them to be consistent…

Miss Rhino There is a newly-proposed national holiday according to my Facebook newsfeed. June 15th has been dedicated to all that is MAN. Yes, that's right, it's National Man Day. The Facebook event, created by brother…

I've been seeing my BF for about four months now, and overall things are going well - we have hiccups like every couple, but he is fun and caring and I enjoy being with him. However, I'm still a virgin (at 24) and am sa…

Miss Alligator The answer, in my mind, is simple. Don't look. I've found love in the most unexpected of places, at a time when seeking a relationship was the last thing I was trying to do. Here's my story. I first ta…

I was on the phone with my friend Jon yesterday telling him about my most recent interest, Jason.I said, "Jon, I met Jason two years ago, and we didn't add each other to Facebook then. Now Jason and I met again after not…

Can someone please explain to me the new craze that seems to be sweeping tween, teen, and young couples? A friend of mine recently told me his girlfriend wanted him to buy her a "promise ring," and apparently the fact th…

Everyone has their own set of "rules," or lack thereof, when it comes to dating. These are my Top Five Rules, a list from someone who's already married and whose rules worked out. Enjoy! 1. The Ex Factor There is no "Fr…

I've seen or experienced quite a lot of sides to relationships - I'm talking "romantic" ones here. My first proper boyfriend was David, when I was sixteen. At the time, I was in no fit state to be with anyone; I could b…

(excuse the rhyme. I couldn't resist.) I've gotten sucked into Paris Hilton's My New BFF (before you judge, you should really watch an episode - it's cheesy, reality TV spoofing fun) and the last episode I saw had a pre…

A little background: I've been dating a guy for 5 1/2 years, and I've always been faithful. Our relationship has been very rocky, especially the last two years. We still stick together, even though everyone hates him a…

So I have a BF and we have dated for a little more than a year now. Somehow, at this point in the relationship, I sometimes get this feeling like I just want to be alone or, to be more specific, I just don't want to be i…

I was dating a guy for about a month. I was absolutely head-over-heels in love right off the bad. He was the perfect boyfriend I'd always wanted; we cuddled and watched movies together, smoked the reefer together, and sh…

"Are you going to the Christmas party?" he asked and my heart skipped a beat.I met him when I was 16, during my first part-time job. We became friends and really hit it off. He was older than me by 3 years; he had a car…

While doing my ritual of not sleeping for a whole night each summer, I came across a MySpace comment I wrote to a boy a while back about his football/drumming. It just got me thinking about all those past moments where y…

So rape. Rape is bad. However, there are gray areas where the girl allows things to go too far and then changes her mind. Now let's get something straight: Girls are at an advantage over guys while horny. Girls h…

I love forms and extraneous verbiage, so I love The Bureau of Communication. My current favorite form is the Declaration of Romantic Intent, which you can fill out, customize and email to your special someone. Here's the…

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML".…

Ex-BF and I used to make out on his futon (HOT!). My current BF had a twin bed before upgrading to a normal sized mattress. Both were kind of workable, but...not really. Unless you two are sitting on the bed and playing…

It shouldn't be a surprise, really, that females are sexual beings. Some may even venture to say, highly sexual beings...almost as sexual as men. *gasp* Yeah, that's right, girls (of course not all girls) can think a…

(And yes, a little bit of a pun is intended...) It can give men false hopes and expectations. Most women don't have 32FFF's with nipples the size of Texas. Most of us aren't that dramatically loud all the time, and if w…

Miss Antelope Summer is the time of year when not only the weather gets hot, but so do many people's emotions and hormones. My only problem is, as much as I would love to be a free spirit and venture out and get wild,…

Clearly, I'm single and plan on staying that way. Why is this? Well, I have no cash to go out on dates, and just have no interest in dating anyone at the moment. I know somewhere out there, someone can agree with me on e…

About a month ago, I took a bus ride from DC to NYC, on my way back home from college. During the roughly five and a half hour ride, I met a lovely girl named Valerie, and we really hit it off. We spoke together throug…

So, I have a guy friend. He's a really cool guy who I've known since my sophomore year of high school and his freshman (he's a year younger than me). We started to get incredibly flirty during my senior year of high scho…

He lived on the third floor of the apartment complex behind my neighborhood. I would travel the five flights of stairs and knock on apartment number 9 wondering if my heart was beating so fast because of the slight hike…

And it was in that time, that I came to him brokenhearted with expectations for him to fix it. It never occurred to me that he couldn't fix my heart. It never occurred to me that he no longer wanted any part of my heart.…

I know there's someone out there that can help me with this situation. I have been married for ten years and I can honestly say I'm in love with my husband's cousin. It first started off as casual conversation and then l…

Okay here's the story and I'm going to try and make it as short and sweet as possible. A couple weeks ago, I was spending the day with my boyfriend, his brother and his sister-in-law. My guy friend kept calling me and I…

Yeah, it's THOSE annoying ads that MUST be plastered onto each Xanga page in the ads section. Even when I was 11 years old with my little 6th grade Xanga, IMVU was everywhere....except the avatars in the ads were a…

Miss Rhino During one of my hour-long StumbleUpon sessions, I ran across this website called I Do Now I Don't. Let me tell you a little bit about it. "The site offers an outlet for people ready to unload their lefto…

I just saw this on the Today Show and had to do some research. Foods and aromas can also be used as an aphrodisiac and can actually help stimulate sexual arousal in both men and women.It is known that men show sexual des…

Dr. Datingish To make a very long story somewhat short, I met a guy at my new job, and he said he recognized me from my old workplace, and had always had a huge crush on me. Funny thing is, I, too, remembered him coming…

Miss Rhino "Hotter guys hit on me when I wear great shoes because I feel better about myself. That goes for tanning too." This is the response I get from my friend Tess when I asked her what my next post should be abo…

So here's the thing. Last night a guy that I've had the hots for for about two years now came to my house. He's been over before, he's friends with my stepdad and my mom. I'm 11 years younger than him, but legal. Last ti…

So I met this guy Monday and we got along really well and he told my best friend's kinda boyfriend that he thought I was pretty. He got my number and started texting me, saying he is glad we met and that he is glad I am…

Miss Antelope The other night, a friend of mine confessed he's had this huge crush on me. Mind you, I did like this person a lot at one point, but then I met someone else (I'm no longer with him) and the feelings faded…

I recently started a summer job in a new city with a small group of peers. We've all had a chance to get to know each other, and there are a few people I really like to hang out with. Unfortunately, most of them aren't r…

"Ouch, ouch, OUCH!" "That hurts. That really hurts." "I don't like that." "Please stop." (sobbing and pleading) "Please, please, I want you to stop." In spite of my continuous protests, his only response was to say "Co…

I've started to notice a trend in popular titles around this community...-5 things girls should know about guys -roughly 106 of the basics guys ought to know about girls -some things a girl should never do to her guy -20…

I decided to move in with my boyfriend and (unfortunately) his sister. BIG MISTAKE! Trying to live with her is like living out on the open farm. She is literally a pig! She doesn't wash her dishes and by that I mean, she…

Since some people get mad when someone tries to tell them that a girl wants a fashionable guy (omg seriously? NOBODY wants a fashionable guy. We all want boys who wear old t-shirts from 6th grade summer camps and old j…

Imagine you have an ex that you're NOT on good terms with. For example, if you happened to be in the same room with this person, you would barely even make eye contact. And now imagine that you still had feelings for thi…

Miss Antelope I'm sure all you ladies and gentlemen have heard this age old theory: the more you look for that special someone, the harder he or she is to find. It's almost like nature is playing hide and go seek. Yo…

The D-Bot has been wandering around the internet and now we've got a Facebook fan page and a Twitter. I need to keep a better eye on him. Show your love for the site all over the web and friend us! It's what Edward woul…

Miss Rhino Serial monogamists. How do they do it? Seriously? Everyone has that friend who is always in a serious relationship. And when that relationship crumbles, it's on to the next one. They are rarely single for…

Recently, my boyfriend and I have been having problems in our relationship. To put it simply, he has a hard time letting go of my past. I'm 17 years old and have been with two guys. For the most part, I think that's an a…

My ex is a really nice guy and things just didn't work out between us, but seriously, he tried to have his way with my toes. We were in marching band together, and between crazy high step marching and two hour practices…

She was my first love. The only girl I've been serious enough about to buy an engagement ring for. I still have that ring. Haven't gotten off my rear enough to sell it yet. It remains, sitting in a lockbox under my…

via Kirp's Twitter: obligatory:

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML".…

What if the possibility of marriage was ruled out of a relationship? No perfect wedding day, no everlasting vows, just the promise to love each other forever... without a marriage certificate. Personally, I could neve…

I have the most annoying, thick-skinned and obnoxious ex in the world. In his twisted world, I'm still in love with him and I would do anything to get back together. He is telling everyone that we still talk and that we'…

It takes me a long time to like or love someone, but I get little mini-crushes all the time. These people aren't necessarily my type - they're enigmatic, catch my attention and make me want to know more about them. After…

Dr. Datingish How do you get over someone? Especially if that person is your BFF. I've fallen for my BFF and I want to get over him because I know he isn't interested. And I'm wondering if I should still stay friends w…

I lived in LA for 5 years and moved back home (middle of the country) a year ago to change careers. I will be moving back to the northern part, near San Francisco, in four months.When I lived in LA, I worked with a guy t…

There's nothing worse than a morning breath kiss... especially when it's late-afternoon. And it's always awkward when you ask "Oh, did you just go the gym?" and the answer is no. Imagine running your hands through shiny…

"Since when is getting a boyfriend so hard?" my friends ask me. Honestly, I have no idea. Things just get harder as we grow up, like school or getting a job or even having a real friend around you. Sorry to say, but we'r…

Miss Rhino A friend recently posted an entry from my new favorite website, Texts From Last Night, on my Facebook wall. (563): I had so many friends before that round of Never Have I Ever. It was no surprise she had…

I went to a graduation party for my ex this past weekend. Before people get all up in arms, let me make a statement: we went out in high school, and only for a short time. More importantly, we are very explicit about…

Miss Alligator Ethan had been my guy friend for three years. We met in my photography class, and I had a like/hate relationship with him. Sometimes he was annoying, and sometimes he was decent. Towards the third year o…

I thought of High Fidelity for this one. Rob is a guy who is obsessed with his record collection. He reorganizes his thousands of records when he's bored (alphabetically, chronologically, chronologically by his life expe…

Miss Walrus Isn't it crazy how sometimes you think you know all of someone - only to find out there is a WHOLE side of him or her that you never even knew existed?Lately I've been hanging out with a guy who I have kno…

I've been asked this question a lot in regards to my own boyfriend. For a long while, I used to answer "Just because," because I honestly didn't have an answer to the question. I loved him because my heart would flutter…

So, I've been dating someone new (who, yes, I met online) and he and I are moving rather quickly. He has a troubled past, but he's learned from his mistakes and I think that's the most important thing. So, anyway, we had…

So this is a little follow-up from my post asking if it would be weird to hanging out with an ex's friend...but what about dating an ex's friend?I couldn't believe some of the responses from that post saying I have somet…

When she answers "I'm fine" after you ask if she's okay, she really wants you to embrace her and kiss her forehead and tell her everything is going to be okay and when she's ready to talk, you'll be there to listen. Wh…

Dear Datingish,Right now I feel stupid - about an hour ago I was dancing around my living room in triumph, now I trudge around in the basement, hidden from the public (my family). Two days ago I got a message on Facebook…

So it's Saturday night and I'm driving around places - my usual trip to the coffeehouse, then browsing through a grocery store or two, and from there, usually back home. Except something unusually amusing happens tonight…

There is a lovely little modified drink that certain types of people order at Starbucks. Every time I have to make or call this little latte, I scratch my head (figuratively speaking of course, as scratching one's head…

I'm getting married in almost a year and a half, and the more I think about the wedding, the more anxious I get. Not over getting married to my fiance, because he is wonderful, but over the wedding itself. I am not the…