I'm getting tired of your shit. Every time you come around you have to bring Jill, Jessica, Eva, and Gianna around too. Doing jello shots and shooting the breeze when I'm trying to sleep. Instead of being in bed wit…

So, I was in love. Heels over head, ready to marry and have his kid kind of love! I mean, when he got home from work I was ready with his favorite drink and I had already done his laundry and hung it up for him kinda lov…

I used to argue with friends that there was no such thing as a bad kisser, just bad kisses. I believed that each person had their own style, which was predetermined by exposure to kissing (nurture) and physiological t…

Lately I have been improving my gaydar, and I have to say, it's gotten pretty good. A few years ago it was terrible, I would never pick up the gay vibe from guys, and I would find out months after meeting them that…

Guys make great friends. If you know a really great guy, make him your friend. I have this guy friend and I love him to pieces literally, he is a GREAT GUY. You know what else great guys make? Great boyfriends. I am s…

image source I am one of those people that doesn't delete a phone contact "just in case." I have "DO NOT ANSWER"s (1, 2, and 3), ex-lovers I'm never going to call, those I never intended to call or answer, and "James…

So, this is my follow-up with my article " Taking a Break vs. Breaking Up"And the sad news is, he broke up with me. Through email no less. After more than a year together, you'd think I deserve at least a break-up in…

My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. We met online and he comes to visit about once a month. He recently got a job in the state I live in. Tomorrow his parents will be helping him…

Okay that's like, 95 years of age difference... A man from Somalia, Ahmed Muhamed Dore, just married a 17-year old girl. This is his 6th marriage. The man has had 5 other wives and has 18 kids. He would like to have som…

We've all been there - Your sitting there, minding your own business, and out of the corner of your eye, you see a movement. All of a sudden, a creep pops up beside you, leans in and whispers some Godforsaken pickup l…

I was talking to a friend of mine, and we were discussing whether or not one can respect their fuck buddy (or as I like to say it, 'buck fuddies', haha), or if their fuck buddy can respect them. My immediate reaction…

After reading this article from the Huffington Post, it seems as if health insurance companies are dropping their coverage of rape victims, simply because of the increased risk of HIV or other sexually-caused medical…

So, I have recently found myself in a bit of a dilemma. My lovely boyfriend, who I have been with for two years, is hoping to transfer to a university all the way across the country. He is ambitious, and so very intel…

I'm in my early 20's, and I don't at all feel like I need to be settling down. I'm the last one in my family who's never brought someone home to family holidays, and as of August, the only one to not have slipped on…

I know it's normal to fight about your ex, but to fight about your ex's pet? My girlfriend "M" is upset that her boyfriend "D" decided to keep the dog that him and his ex had bought together. The ex was initially go…

Tonight is game one of the World Series between the Yankees and the Phillies. What I wouldn't do for tickets to that game. Well.... prostitute myself, that's what I wouldn't do. But sex for tickets was no problem f…

Love. It is not something to be grown. It sparks at the most unexpected moment. One who loves would naturally finds himself thinking about her all the time, wanting to furnish her with everything she sets her eyes on…

Q. So about 6 months back I met a guy (lets call him Matthew) on Omegle, a chatting site where you can talk to random strangers. It was completely casual and Matthew and I hit it off instantly but we were still only…

So I don't have my pre pregnancy body anymore, I've accepted that. I've put away my size 5 clothes and hung up my sexy size 9's, thankful I can at least suck in my muffin top. I post only the "skinny" looking pictur…

My boyfriend and I were talking the other day, about the differences between relationships now, and then. We were mostly comparing ourselves to our parents. He mentioned how he dated this girl once, and he was pick…

I met my first love on the first day of school in middle school. The 12 year old me, who thought boys were gross, was totally smitten. Let's just say it didn't end well, awkward crushes aren't exactly my thing. Fast…

So the other day I met this guy at a volunteer service project. It was lust at first sight. He was perfect- tall, handsome, smart, friendly, funny... the list goes on. When I get home I decide to do some personal inve…

Old news, right? Chris Brown once again updated his twitter about Rihanna, stating that he's still missing her. Well, maybe you shouldn't have punched her in the head? But this isn't the post for that. In fact, Chris…

You meet him. He's nearly perfect. The two of you have so much in common and.. wait, did he just mention a girlfriend?!It's a terrible, awkward situation to be in. Although it varies from case to case, there are a fe…

There was one girl who I vowed to hate for the rest of my life. It was the girl who stole my ex-boyfriend. She was a new friend he had made through an organization on campus while we were in college. When I first met…

It's not like I'm super conservative when it comes to one's sexual behavior and past history. Just that I had a higher threshold than I knew I had. Sure, one night stands and casual sex are bound to happen. But I c…

Can you fall in love with someone you don't even know?Could your soul recognize someone simply by sight? There is a certain athlete that I know solely through the television that I have felt a weird, strange connectio…

I think it's normal to feel a bit worry or concern about possibly being cheated on. Although throwing irrational accusations left and right might be a sign of insecurity. I've always been the type of girl to cheat o…

If you've seen "When Harry Met Sally" or just had the luck of being in such a awkward situation, you've asked yourself if it really is possible for a man and woman to be "just friends."I've heard many viewpoints on th…

All forms of domestic abuse have one purpose: to gain and maintain total control over the victim. Abusers use many tactics to exert power over their spouse or partner: dominance, humiliation, isolation, threats, int…

As someone who has only had one girlfriend his entire life it's sometimes hard to even imagine myself married to a girl. I know a lot of people who married before they turned 25-some were around 22 or 23 and had bee…

So a good friend of mine calls me to ask me to do the double date thing with her (something I don't usually do). She really liked the guy and had recently met his cousin and she figured I would like the guy. So we dec…

I once read: "If you love each other enough, it will work...the commitment will grow. Sadly, you have it backwards. Love is not enough. Life and marriage is so much more complicated than this. You need protection tha…

image source I haven't been able to go out with my SO very much this month because I've been pretty sick. Since I haven't been feeling well my SO has been seriously pampering me--bringing me movies, my favorite foods,…

... But I won't do that. If you're like me, you're competitive. Even when playing board games or video games with your significant other. It started on my gf's (now wife's) birthday. We played Risk at her place...a…

I recently got into a little argument with a friend and expressed my frustrations with her boyfriend. Apparently he said some things about me that I didn't like, and yes, I talked a little too much. When she talked…

image source I was briefly employed at Blockbuster (video) during my senior year of high school. While working there, I met a lot of people. Most of which I wanted nothing to do with. A word to the wise: small talk is…

My husband and I are married not because I said, "I do," but because he said, "I'll do it." - Victoria Grantham This woman's story of how her now-husband planned their entire wedding right down to the very last napkin…

This is my response blog to Types of Misters to stay away from. Instead of a list of misters to stay with, this is a list of types of men all women should keep in their lives.

When you get married, the preacher will say "in sickness and in health" when you say them, take them seriously because you never know when and how serious you or your spouse can get sick. What if you were sick befo…

On "sexism." I don't think it's an appropriate term. That implies that women belong in the kitchen and men are the sole breadwinners. Women have to shut up and all dragons are slain by men etc etc. A while ago, I w…

This article made me reflect on the phases of dating:I think I wrote a farcical parody on it in the past. Now that I'm older, I'll write a better rendition of the stages of dating. Juvenile: There are young women rai…

Speaking as a 30-something single girl, I thought the guys should have a real perspective on being a bachelorette. Here are some categories to shed some light on the stance. Fastidious - Those who have dated yet haven't…

Steps to take to ensure that your man cheats on you: 1. Talk talk talk and never listen. Women are famous for wanting more conversation from their men, the problem is they're so used to talking they don't know h…

I recently debated with a friend of mine about the "double standard" in dating and I think that this friend made an interesting point. I supposed that its a double standard when a girl is intimate with multiple guys an…

Q. I'm a freshman girl currently living in a dorm. My roommate wants me and my boyfriend to stop having sex in our dorm room. Period. This isn't a case of "no sex while I'm there." We've arranged it now so we only d…

1. Do them favors Not only will they appreciate it, but it also gives you an excuse to speak to them and spend time with them. A good example will be, if they moan to you they can't do something, Google the answer, an…

After a recent post featured here about how some women want assholes in their lives and men don't want to date the female equivalent I felt compelled to write about this. I as a woman will not touch on what men want.…

To truly consider what love is we must first eliminate what it is not: I. It is not infatuation which is either ignorance or arrogance towards someone special. You may like someone for their most…

My girlfriend just told me she needs a nice way of telling her man to keep his leg close. No, not in the whorish way but more of a sitting etiquette. The story goes, they were riding the subway together and it…

My husband and I have been married for over 3 years now. We have a 3 year old daughter together and life is great. He's finishing up his last year of college and once he graduates, he'll start working as a radiologist…

We all strive to be like someone else, have what they have or desire it on some sort of level. If you haven't then you're lying. We should stop comparing ourselves to other people, but it's so hard...especially with…

I want to tell you this story.Years ago in high school, a girl found herself liking a childhood friend and never spoke a word of it to him. A year or two passes by, he began to date one of her girl friends. Though she…

I'm ashamed to admit that I've been bitten by the love bug. And by love bug I mean vampires. True Blood has quickly become my new obsession, and as much as I would like to say that Edward doesn't do things to my heart, I…

Cheating is something that I have seen happen over and over again. No, not the: "Holycrapididn'tprepareformymidtermandifidon'tpassthistesttheniwillnevergraduatecollegeandthenIwillsnowballintoajunkieanddiebyjumpingoffab…

I’ve gone to my share of weddings. They are usually heart-warming and sweet but it makes me wonder how can two distinctive people come together and take the plunge to make a life-long commitment? I know various factors…

I'm going to play devils advocate here, because this is my take on it. Sorry if you don't agree. I read the story from this link. This is my take on it. He is a justice of the peace, they are not paid to preform cerem…

I was woken up by a text from my friend saying, "I think ___ is hiding things from me..." Me, being the nice friend I am, dove deeper into the statement. Apparently, her long distance college relationship is not going as…

I was lying in bed and thinking, as I often do. I was thinking about the fact that since my ex-boyfriend and I broke up, after a 2 and a half year relationship, I've been scared to commit to anyone else. Scared becau…

When I was a child, I wanted to become a teenager as fast as I could, so I can do "grown-up things", which at age 6 meant shopping by myself and finding prince charming. When I became a teenager, I wanted to become an…

Last night, my girlfriend and I went to see Couples' Retreat. It's gotten alright reviews, but I loved it. I was in a really romantic mood so I was okay with the 70-30 division between romance and comedy. But that's no…

Ok, recently I posted about some experimentation my boyfriend and I recently had with saying other peoples names in bed. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, and been friends for about 7. He was a swinger…

"Hel-lo, cutie patootie," my friend whispers under his breath. He is barely audible to me, and the cutie patootie definitely cannot hear him. "I noticed you were trying to get somewhere, giggity, gig, gig," he mumbles…

I have thought we've come some ways in civil rights for all. But this really boils my blood. Keith Bardwell, Justice of the Peace in Tangipahoa Parish, will not sign marriage licenses for interracial couples because h…

Girls have to stop complaining about guys until they start showing better taste in them. There, I said it. I would be the first person to admit that guys are by no means perfect. However, I know for a fact that I'd nev…

It looks like Malaysia is taking a hint from the premise of Couples Retreat. The movie follows four couples as they go on a vacation in the hopes to rekindle and reinvigorate their marriages. Now, Malaysia's eastern s…

I am not one of the thinnest girls in the world. Hell, I'm chubby. But what I never understood was the obsession with being thin. I just don't get it. Love yourself, and you'll be loved. It's my philosophy. It's a rath…

I'm bored and waiting for it to be 11pm so I can get my husband and I found this awesome website with some interesting facts about kissing, I thought I'd share some of my favorites: 1. Lips are 100 times more sensit…

When we think of art, we think of the finger painting of a child, a sketch of some trees, some abstract sculpture that you still don't understand, or something along those lines. And who creates art? Artists.Richar…

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML".…

Ok, there is no doubt in my mind that I just might be the clumsiest person in the world. Any embarrassing thing you could ever think that would happen to a person has probably happened to me....on more than one occas…

"Everyone says love hurts, but that isn't true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world t…

This is something I wonder about every day. Is it just me? I have a very hard time having a normal sex life. Don't get me wrong, I love sex. But I have NEVER been able to make love. The only sex that I have is fast, har…

Say it ain't so! Our favorite guy who lives in a pineapple under the sea is giving in to the old ball and chain? Even Spongebob is getting married before me! How old is he anyway? For ten seasons, kids and grown ups a…

I always find it a little interesting when some women say they want a man, but I wonder how many of them would like a man who is a manchild. By that I don't just mean those who like to play with video games and all. I…

So, I know that we all have our own sex fantasies from bondage to role playing and whatever floats your boat, but my question is would any of you put up with your partner calling you another love interest's name in…

I have a few friends who are always hungry for love, attention, and relationships. They’ll do anything to find love, seek attention, and to be in a relationship all together. Honestly, I don’t know how they can do it…

Ah, yes... this is one of the most confusing questions I have ever dealt with on the topic of relationships.I'm currently going through a "break" right now with my boyfriend of over a year. I must say, that I'm extr…

I consider myself to be a very tolerant person when it comes to other people. If you don't like me, that's perfectly fine, as I can't expect everyone to like me. I will gladly keep a respectable distance and if we hav…

Now, this is all theoretical here, but, if men and women couldn't have sex, as if there was no such thing as intercourse, sex drives and sexual tension were non-existent, do you think that we would still hang out? D…

I have known my boyfriend for a total of 10 years. You could say that my boyfriend and I grew up on the opposite side of the tracks. His parents were divorced when he and his sister were young. He lived with his…

A good friend of mine once said to me, "If you want a guy to like you and continue to stay, act like a bitch. Guys like girls who are bitches." She, of course, was referring to herself. And she wasn't wrong. I have…

My mom just called me:"There is the most gorgeous guy at Chilis, you have to come up here right now!""Mom, I just ate and I don't really feel like getting out in this weather and driving 15 minutes just to see a cute g…

My whole life, I have heard to save yourself for marriage because of religious beliefs. Me, on the other hand, am not a very religious person and believes a person's choice is his or her choice. (Who am I to judge?) I h…

Grey's Anatomy: Meredith Grey and McDreamy's relationship begins with a one-night stand and now they are married on a post-it. Regardless of the post-it, I think they are in love and are going to make it. My quest…

So, I've read tons of posts on Datingish about how people are wondering if they should get into a relationship because of either A) age difference or B) religion. Well, here's a couple of little secrets I'd like to ge…

Addiction is a really ugly disease. It changes you not only physically but also emotionally. And it can take years to gain everything back that you lost. I currently work in an addiction treatment center and it rea…

This is about and for a guy I know....When am I going to spin this web of lies?I suppose right now.Truth: When was it that I realized I had made a mistake by not claiming you as mine? Oh, I'd say about two days after…

I always got a lot of crap for being such a "boy" at school because I really hated to put on make-up everyday like all the popular girls did. I really hated wearing tight-fitting clothes that would show off my curves…

I just moved to a new place, and was extremely excited about a fresh start. I hadn't been the most social at my last school and I really wanted to be more outgoing. So I reached out towards people, and after 2 months…

image source I am currently in a long distance relationship. It's only been a month, but so far, I've noticed some things about it: 1) It's absolutely necessary to have complete trust in your SO. Without it, it's…

I really hate when people say that to you. It has been said to me once before by my ex boyfriend. During a fight we had and when the subject of ‘breaking up’ came up. We had a rocky relationship and we did have freque…

Today I have decided that I do not know how to be in a relationship...And I'm afraid to learn. Sure, I've had a few relationships when I was younger...But they didn't go anywhere. Now I'm older and the person I'm "ta…

I've known for a while that I've been avoiding getting heavily involved with women or at least I'd get involved as far as a relationship wasn't on the cards. I've mused over the benefits of having a girlfriend and…

Perhaps I should revise the title of this post because it won't necessarily deal with sex....but I won't because it's also a Borat reference. There, I said it. Anyway, I always wondered what music/songs/artists people p…

I remember my friend and I sat around and talked about our little summer adventures on who we had met, talked to, went on dates with, kissed, and made out with.. We talked about why these people caught our attention,…

I've been fortunate enough not to ever be in a situation where I'm dating someone and I get an embarrassingly krapp gift...a gift that sucks so bad to the point where I have to use my very limited acting skills to convin…

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML".…

You know how people can magically lose any common sense they ever had once they enter a relationship? That's me. At least, that's what I think. We always find ourselves making up excuses for our SOs. "Oh but he only d…

I've been so out of the game that I figured, okay, I know what to do IN a relationship. That's easy. I've gone over it a million times in my head. What it means to treat her right, the do's and don't of a relationship…

My answer is absolutely not. Put I'll put my opinions aside for a moment. I have a friend who is a self-described "grandpa chaser" (yuck, i know). Anyway, she's in her late 20s and routinely dates men in their early to…

Please answer me one question, why are girls so desperate? I mean honestly, why is it that girls let guys that treat them like complete shit and want nothing to do with them follow around guys like lost puppies and ho…

I saw an interesting survey the other day. The question was: If you could go on a shopping spree for a day, but have to give up sex for 3 years, would you do it? Needless to say, a whopping 85% of women say they woul…

Domestic violence and sexual assault are pervasive and life-threatening crimes affecting millions of individuals across our nation regardless of age, economic status, race, religion or education. Domestic violence and…

Ok now, typical occasions (from what I've seen/been through) in a relationships that are usually deemed important are as follows:Birthdays, anniversary, "monthsary" - Corny, I know, but a lot of the couples I know (inc…

I know it sounds like a fairy tale, and it seems like everyone ends up happily ever after, this couldn't be further from the truth. You see, Prince Charming is usually the type of man who only feels good about himself w…

Dating Jokes: Dictionary for Personal Ads WOMEN'S ADS: 40-ish - 49Adventurous - Slept with everyoneAthletic - No titsAverage looking - UglyBeautiful - Pathological liarContagious Smile - Does a lot of pillsEmotional…

The one thing I kept noticing about introverts that is VERY interesting is that no one but another knows they are and will understand that they are not people persons, and the ironic part of it is that two introverts…

For those of you that read my "Text Message Break Up" post, you should know that the boyfriend I had at the time as pretty much an ass. But that situation wasn't the only example of him being an ass. Throughout the maj…

So a guy I'm dating has a problem: I have a lot of homework and can't talk to him like how I did in the summer. First of all (and probably what all of you are thinking), what the hell is his problem?! Yes, I know. On…

So the other day, my girlfriend and I got into an argument about the number. She was telling me about her brother who always brings home a different girl every weekend; she then goes on to talk about these girls like she…

While listening to my favorite radio station's morning show I was reminded of an unfortunate incident that happened about a year ago. I was dating a girl for about 3 months and we went out on a Saturday for our usual…

My boyfriend calls my mother by her first name to her face, and she loathes it. How do I let him know that the two of them just aren't that close yet?My girlfriend insists on having the passwords to my email and Facebook…

I was browsing through some online personal ads and realized that, comparing the men's and women's, there are some major disconnects. Everybody knows that spambots browse personal sites sometimes to get men (usually) to…

"Hey baby, what you weigh?" Asking someones weight, especially a females, is such a taboo topic nowadays. Definitely not something that will score you points when trying to hit on a prospective interest. Personally, I'…

I believe that beauty is within every woman, no matter what shape, size, skin, height, and weight. I've seen a reality TV show like "More To Love" about a man saying that plus sized women are "real women," when that's…

Recently there's been a trend on Datingish revolving around pick-up lines. Nerdy pick-up lines, compliments confused for pick-up lines and if pick-up lines even work. In the latest post, lil_KyungMin@xanga said it woul…

Someone once told me that Scientologists take prospective converts and try to remake them in their own image. I have no way of knowing whether this is accurate or not, but what I do know is that I've seen quite a few exa…

Frankly, I think this is a bunch of bull. But sometimes I can't help but to think this. I'm overweight. I have been most of my life and I've never had much luck in the guy department. I'm good looking, I'm told. Nice an…

Recently, if you read my blog you know Ive been fretting about a few things, the big one has been planning a wedding. It then inspired a blog about many of the questions I've been wanting to ask, some because of a blog…

So do pick up lines ever really work? I say yes because there are an infinite number of pick up lines not just the corny ones like "Did it hurt? (I think the rest is pretty well known now)" or something about looking i…

Okay, from my personal experience I noticed the two biggest insecurities guys have is balding and their penis size. There are plenty of products out there now to help with male baldness so that leaves the latter. Th…

I was talking with a group of my friends and we discussing boys as girls often do. The topic of guys who come to school with girlfriends back home but still purse girls here, came up. I asked my friends "would you date…

Do you believe that when something or someone becomes too popular, it gets annoying so you tend to avoid or even hate? Like Twilight and Miley Cyrus/Hannah Montana, now that they're everywhere, so are the haters and…

Now I don't know if this is all true or even half true, but I think it's really fun to read. 1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls. 2. Guys hate flirts. 3. A guy…

Fmylife.com contains short day-to-day life anecdotes. A simple recipe: in one sentence, each site visitor can tell the shitty moment which ruined his day. These short stories must begin with "Today" and end with "FML". H…

I am really curious on how will Xangans respond to this. Do you guys prefer baby faced or a more masculine face? Which one do you see yourself in a long term relationship with? Which one in a short term relationship? Whi…

Sex is right up there with money, a couple definitely wants to be on the same page when it comes to both.. However; often times this doesn't happen. Let's take a look at what could happen when a husband wants sexual r…

So there was a Datingish post about romantic lines that you can use on your loved one or to snag a loved one. Maybe you saw it. Maybe you even saw my response to the question: "What is the most romantic line someone's…

It is that time in the relationship, ladies & gentlemen and this time around I do not know where to start the conversation. I've been dating my boyfriend now for roughly 6 months and I know for everyone the timeli…

Cooking dinner and laughing cause you've added too much cream cheese to the Alfredo sauce Eating the dinner anyways Taking pictures of yourselves because you're bored and want to be silly Laying in bed watching a mo…