I started dating my boyfriend about a year ago, who I absolutely adore. About 6 months ago, he asked me to meet his family, and they're great! His mother is doll, her cooking sucks, but I've found it in my heart to look past that! His father is a charmer, with a great sense of humor. But there is the sister...This sixteen year old little witch from the deepest of the darkest depths in hell! She hangs up when I call the house, and makes the most out of every open opportunity to make me look bad or to embarrass me in front of the family! Whenever I am around, she talks nonstop about his ex-girlfriend who she claims to have just absolutely loved to death. I do everything to try and get on her good side, but she's not having it! I am almost at the end of my rope here, giving up! It seems she will just never come around. I would just let this ride out the way it is, but I have decided I want to propose to my boyfriend, and would love to be able to do that knowing that his whole family was willing to accept me! As a last resort, what should I do to come to terms with her? I could never understand why she hates me so much in the first place!
Five years ago, I found this man online who totally swept me off my feet. We talked for about three years, and then lost contact for two when my email address just stopped working! Miraculously, he found me again on myspace.com, using my NON-WORKING email addy! It sounds really cheesy but it was like this was all meant to happen just this way. He came up to New York and we finally met in person after five whole years. The sparks flew! He was even more handsome in person! Since then we have been talking for long hours every night, and he wants me to take the trip to see him this time where he lives, in Las Vegas. For the past five years he has been my little secret. No one knows of our long-distance e-romance. How the heck do I explain this to my family? Is it even worth the drama? After all, I have only met the guy once in person. I can still step out while I have one foot in!
I've been with my boyfriend for a whole two and half years! That's
like, a century to a young girl livin' in the big city now-a-days! I
mean we ALWAYS have our options. Sometimes we look for them, and other
times, they just sort of "drop in." Like my sexy little option, we will
call him...Bob. We kicked it off right away as friends, but recently
there are definitely some sparks in the air between us! I am afraid I
might be falling for Bob just because he is something fresh, new,
spontaneous, exciting, sexy, personable, tall, dark, handsome,
eloquent, okay you get my drift! I mean nothing was wrong with my
boyfriend before Bob came along. Yet, if I was really happy, would this all be possible? I am way too new to this love triangle crap! How can I find my way out?!
So I thought nothing could get worse than, "Hey Baby, you look tired. Is that because you've been running through my mind all day?" Just when I thought us ladies had heard and seen it all, comes this new trend by storm in the "Picking Up Chicks Handbook." It's called retail. That's right, retail! Every where I go now there is some guy who wants to give me something free or at a discount, in exchange for my seven digits! I can't just pay for ANYTHING anymore! If you ask me, this is the laziest it's going to get! The sad part is, most of us women are so materialistically inclined that we can't say no! I myself have given in to a free vanilla frappuccino. You know, the real cute bottle they sell next to the five dollar sandwiches? All I'm saying is, think twice before you give in to the employee discount malarkey. Next thing you know, you'll be stuck with a jobless boyfriend, and we all know we don't want to go there!
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