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Friday, 18 May 2012

  • Riding a Bike Could Ruin Your Sex Life


    If you cycle a lot, and value your sex life, it might be time to hop off the saddle. Research from Yale University found women who cycle on a regular basis may be reducing the sensitivity of their vaginas. More Here...

  • Critiques in the Bedroom


    I knew a couple who would often do a play-by-play breakdown after they've done the deed. Instead of pillow talk or deep philosophical conversations (just me?), it was an analysis of moves--what worked and what didn't. I remember when my girl friend told our little group about it and the general reaction was a furrowed brow and a weird look. 

    I think the idea of openly talking about it is healthy and will eventually, inevitably, improve your sex life. Finding out what works and what feels good for both of you is what makes exploring one another so fun. To talk about it so honestly speaks volumes about your relationship.
    More Here...
  • I Didn't Ask for This

    This post has been submitted anonymously by a Datingish reader.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months. I've know him for a long time before we started dating. I'm 23 and he's 26. Our relationship has been amazing so far, we haven't fought and it's been the most stress-free relationship I've ever been in.

    But recently we had a discussion about making compromises for a relationship. Specifically, he wants me to stop clubbing and dress more conservatively, but he wants me to do these things for myself and not for him. So he suggested we take the title off our relationship, and I take time out to figure out what I want in this relationship.

    It's been about two weeks. More Here...

Thursday, 17 May 2012

  • Fetish of the Week: Somnophilia

    Somnophilia is often referred to as the Sleeping Beauty syndrome... or being sexually aroused by a sleeping person. Seems fairly self-explanatory, right?

    People who have somnophilia are often aroused by the waking up of a sleeping person, either through sensual caresses or otherwise. Being in close proximity to a sleeping person may stir up sexual urges as well. 
    More Here...
  • When an Ex Comes to Town

     

    I have been seeing this guy for a couple months now and have known him for a little over a year. It turns out we had been mutually interested in one another for quite some time, but due to our professional relationship we only recently had an opportunity to voice our interests and thus begin dating. I have been very happy and things have been going extremely smoothly so far, until the other day when he told me that his ex-girlfriend is coming to visit

    From what I understand, things ended quite dramatically when they broke up right around the time that he and I first met. To make things even more complicated, way back when his ex actually (falsely) accused him of cheating on her with me.

    This was a very preposterous claim for her to make considering he and barely knew each other at that time, and eventually she owned up to completely fabricating this story to help put distance between them as their relationship was fading. Needless to say this woman isn't very fond of me despite how little she ever knew about me and from what my guy says she has been out of the picture for about a year now. More Here...

  • Boundaries of Love: Trying to Let Go of High School


    If I took one love lesson away from high school, it was to never date your friend's ex.  Especially your best friend's ex.  Long story somewhat shortened, I'm falling for my ex's best friend.  But after a lengthy conversation with my bff (which I will get to, I promise), I've seen the situation in a different light, and maybe I've been thinking about this the wrong way for a long time.

    The day Jordan and I met, a single thought has since then repeated itself incessantly in my mind: "Why couldn't I have met you first?"  I've always had a crush on him, but kept mentally denying him because he was close with my ex, and I decided for myself that it would be wrong for me to pursue anything with him because it would surely mess with their friendship.

    Fast forward seven months: my ex and I are over because he was pushing people away in his life (including Jordan, me, and his family) and I didn't want to deal with it anymore.  Jordan decided he wanted to maintain his relationships with both of us, because he and I had grown closer over those months--though purely for friendship reasons.  We have a lot in common, share a sense of humour, and enjoy hanging out in big groups of friends. More Here...

  • Getting His Number


    I've been taking these Spanish lessons for the past four months and there's a guy that I really like. Now, he's not just the regular run of the mill kind of guy, he's got that something. I don't mean that just because I like him. He knows the most random interesting and cool things (like me) and I learned that chivalry is not dead.

    We only just started talking a bit last month, after two moths of me staring from afar, and of catching him staring from afar. Now the classes will be coming to an end next week, and I can't let him just slip by.

    You know when you really like somebody and you can't think clearly when you're with them? That comes over the both of us, and I think that's the only reason we haven't gone anywhere. More Here...

Wednesday, 16 May 2012

  • Why Can't I Trust My Fiance?


    This post was submitted anonymously by a Datingish user
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    Hello, this is Annie. I am engaged to someone I truly love from the core of my heart. It's a love alliance and I made all the effort (convinced mine & even his parents).

    I trusted him a lot till one day I logged into his account & found his bill details, which showed he had been messaging to one of his colleagues (divorcee) more than often, even at midnight. I was not at all aware of this. I confronted him and asked him about this. He said she was trying to make physical advances toward him & he was just trying to tell her that her demands are not right. More Here...

  • My Seven-Year-Old Love Story

    This is how I plan to officially end everything.

    Almost all of my friends know it - I reached this age without ever having a boyfriend. I don't remember someone who has courted me. Maybe because all the men in the world were all busy looking for girls that fit their own standards...their ideal girl as they call it. But those who are closest to me know this one thing - I loved someone, and that love lasted for seven years.

    He was just an ordinary guy I met in my sophomore year in high school. Then day after day I got to know him more and I ended up seeing him as the nicest man that I knew in my life next to my Dad. It was seven years ago, he already changed from the nicest guy to the coldest but life once seemed to be so unfair, my love stayed. Even if it almost has no reason to, it still did. More Here...

  • Now He's Distant?


    This post was submitted anonymously by a Datingish user.

    I've been in this relationship for only three months. The first month he was so loving and caring. He used to give me time, but we couldn't meet because he was away often, but when he came back, we would meet like every week. It was going perfectly but suddenly because of some family problems I stopped meeting him. We didn't meet for a month and he started to give me less time. More Here...

  • Ode to Women


    I never get tired of living in Southern California. To me, it's the most beautiful place on earth. While the rest of the country is either buried in snow or dealing with the misery of old man winter, So Cal residents are loving life. As I write this, it's April and the temperature outside is a balmy 75°. At this very moment, I'm sitting in my kitchen gazing out the window at waving palm trees framed by a cloudless sky. It's days like these where I feel truly lucky to be alive.

    So when I'm feeling like this, literally on Cloud Nine, I can't help but think of all the wonderful things that make my life worth living. Amazing friends, a loving family, and a healthy body are all cornerstones of a good life. But what really makes my good life great, are Women.

    Regular readers of my blog know that I have a full-blown, raging, over-the top, all-consuming fascination with the better half of the human race. And I’m sure as hell not talking about men. Everything about a woman affects me to the deepest levels of my soul. The sight, sound and scent of a woman attacks each of my senses with a searing intensity each and every day. More Here...

  • Wondering About Her


    Sometimes I wonder if you ever really get over your first love.  I haven't seen or talked to mine in years.  I met her on here, through Xanga, ages ago.  Most days I never even think of her.  When I do, it's normally just a fleeting memory.  But some days, I'm browsing blog rings or reading comments on someone's site and I see her name come up.  I'm so tempted to click on her username and see what she's up to, just to see if I can read her site and be sure that I'm completely over her.  More Here...

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