My ex dumped me about a month ago, a relationship in which she cheated. We had our ups & downs like most couples, but this one really hurt. She studies abroad and the last time I went to visit her, things were great. She was sick, but I took care of her, cleaned her apartment, washed her clothes, stuff like that. I had asked her if there was anyone else she could be with and she mentioned one guy, but said I had nothing to worry about because he's in another country.
Well, everything was great for about three months including when she came back home for vacation, which was amazing. However, she then finds out that one guy is here. He asked her to go out in the night and she asked me what I thought; I told her I didn't like it. She kissed me and said, "It’s okay, that's why I love you."
When he was leaving to go back to his country, he asked her to come over and she said yes. We went out that morning, and she broke the news that she cheated on me with him. She said all they did was make out and that he left a hickey on her neck, but she insisted that he was a nice guy. She was very heartbroken so I comforted her, forgave her in less than 5 mins, hugged her and kissed her. I took the week off from work to spend with her. We went out for the week I came over and so on.
When I was there, I wanted to show her that I could still be intimate with her so we slept together. However, just before we got started, she told that there was another hickey on her, this time on her breast, but she said that he bit her through her clothes and nothing else happened. During that week, I told her that it was unfair to me that she was still talking to the guy and she had to choose.
I got pounded because she said that she would never ask me to choose between a friend and herself. She said that she needed space and when she goes back to study, to give her some space as well. So she went back and everything changed. She started treating me like crap telling me that the guy is nice, has a good heart and has been telling her that he has been in love with her for two years.
It got so bad to the point where she told me that technically, she didn't cheat on me, and her heart wasn't in the relationship. She said if that's what I need to tell myself to sleep better at night, go ahead. So I would buy her roses, massage her, talk to her, never cheat on her and was always there for her except for personal time when I was going through some stuff of my own.
Her parents and family love me because they know I treated her like a princess & a goddess. So while over there, she told me she was breaking up with me because after six years of being together, I didn't consider her feelings.
She needed space for that week & I pushed myself up on her. So when it ended, I tried to reach out a hand and said, "If you ever need anything, I'm here," but she told me she has real friends and I'm the last person in the world she will call. We stopped talking but she's still talking with the other guy. My friend knows the guy. She said he's a womanizer and a real player. He dated her and cheated on her from all angles.
I'm really lost right now.