Until recently, things have been quiet on the Romance front. Over the last few months, my neighbor and I have been getting to know one another. I made my position clear, and I asked how he felt about me. So it looks like we're in the friend zone
. One night I come home and he's sitting outside on the steps, drunk, with a beer in hand. Throughout the conversation, I learned he was to turn himself in and face ten years for a bar fight that ended badly 8 years ago, due to a recent probation violation.
We adjourned inside to his apartment and kept drinking. He asked me to spend the night repeatedly, and got 'pissy' calling me pathetic and damaged goods because I refused to sleep next to him
. I grabbed a beer and left. Can I officially say I am SICK of putting up with this BS for the sake of 'giving a guy a chance'?
I'm tired of putting up with the same crap for fear of missing a good opportunity. I'm not putting out any bull, so any thoughts as to why I'm getting shit instead of respect?
I'm curious as to the origin of the guilt trip my neighbor tried on me. What makes men feel that we as women are obligated to indulge in a sexual encounter, just because that's what they want?
After the statement about me being pathetic, damaged goods was made, I stated I would not accept the guilt. He says, "I'm not trying to guilt trip you!" Realy? Denial is not a river in Egypt.