Men who talk excessively during sex make the fire down below go cold. Men who always want it to be all about them and nothing for us just kill the flame. Also, men who get off before us yet do not succeed in giving us an orgasm because they roll off and over to go to sleep after they got their 'happy' and we got the pass, which pisses us off and leaves us unsatisfied.
Men who always obsess over their homeboys and their mama just annoy us especially when they say, "Boo, I'm hanging with the boys," while we waste our time waiting on them which leaves us feeling rejected and angry. A man who is constantly working and has no time for play makes us feel second best and some of us go searching for the attention we seek because our bodies crave that skin to skin contact and connection with our mate.
Some even compare us to their exes constantly which we automatically find revolting and unappealing. Others ignore us on a daily basis and refuse to give us pleasure yet want us to stay. And there is the type that changes moods like their underwear which does not keep the 'puta' wet because we never know when the screws in that brain are going to come loose.
An unshaven penis just murders the mood because it is downright nasty. Pubic hairs in the mouth ain't happening. Men who brag about their penis size to everyone are annoying.
These are the men who make the pussy dry up.
What turns you off?
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Um... wow. Maybe you need to start hanging with different kinds of guys? The ones you're talking about sound like real ghetto idiots.I've met guys like that before, but I don't bother wasting my time getting close enough to hear them talk to me like that.
As for unshaven penises, to each her own.. I think the prepubescent look is weird. I don't understand why everyone wants to look completely hairless. I do believe in keeping everything trimmed and neat, for both parties, but I don't think anyone should be expected to shave their genitals.. relationships nowadays seem to be all about women taking control over men. Now, while most guys appreciate your honest opinion on their clothing, facial hear, etc. (just like you should appreciate their honest opinion and take it into consideration just as he would), it doesn't mean he's your personal Ken doll to dress up and play with. I got off topic but I'm not talking to you directly, more women in general.
Anyway, you sound young. Now is a good time to figure yourself out and become whole within. Then, when you're ready, move somewhere or go off to college and enter a different environment. Experience being different people in different places, and decide who and where you like the best. Then you know what you'll want in a partner.
I don't care about the relationship a guy has with his mother so long as he doesn't say things like "do X like my mommy used to" in bed even if we are just cuddling. Weird. Gross. NO. It only happened once. No need to add it to my list.
"Also, men who get off before us yet do not succeed in giving us an orgasm because they roll off and over to go to sleep after they got their 'happy'"
There is nothing I like to do more than see how fast I can make a guy cum no matter if he wants it to go fast or not. Putting them to sleep is like icing on the cake. It's satisfying in a different kind of way. To each their own I guess.
I can't wait to see the responses to the male version of this.
Welcome to Datingish, the website where women bitch about men all the time and are in good company, but if a man bitches about women he's either a sexist pig, a misogynist, or a douchebag.
Double standards FTW.
Poorly written posts turn me off. Congratulations, darling.
Ignore the other commentors, they are jealous of your gothic undertones. Ya those are pretty standard turn offs. I'm glad the bar is so low though - makes it so much easier for me :)
whiny bitches.
actually, can we focus a little bit on the positive? i'm really into girls who like shitty top 40 music. cause as shitty as it is, i fucking *love* dancing to that shit. and singing it, too. nothing makes life worth living like walking back home at 5 in the morning singing some well-written kesha lyrics. lookin' for some trouble tonight!
I use to focus on turn offs. And yes, things can bug me or change my mood, or make me no longer interested in someone. Everyone is human we dislike and like things in people.
I just now a days don't see the point in focusing on the bad, or things I dislike. Mostly because there isn't a real point in posting turn off lists. You already know what turns you off. Why broadcast it?
Are there men who shave their penises? Yikes!
"I'll let you cum in my mouth, but if a single hair gets past my lips, this deal is over..." interesting mindset...anywhoo
I don't disagree with most of this list. I am sorta attracted to cocky men when we're shooting the breeze, not obnoxiously cocky one's but the one's like big brash boys..but in bed, cocky men are often flops. Bragging to ME about their skills...hey sir, let ME be the judge cause I really don't care what made your ex wax poetic.
And the number one thing that makes me clamp the legs and roll over...him bitching about work in bed. I don't want his crazy bitch supervisor to be the woman he is focusing on when he's between the sheets, even if he's not fantasizing about her, three is a crowd.
I refuse to play with a shaved penis. I feel like I'm with a child, no thanks.
Oh gosh. People and a little pubic hair make me laugh. It's like natural. You grow hair down there. It happens. lol Everyone is overly anal about it. As long as it's trimmed or whatever who cares. Stop being so damn shallow. If it's trimmed it doesn't get all on your mouth. lol mah gawd.
Anyways.
What are you turned on by then? lol You got a long list. I don't really get turned off unless I hear them treating women like only a piece of ass or something. Unless I WANT to be treated that way. lol I also get turned off by like guys who flat iron they're hair and feminine things like that. I don't get turned off that easily though. I have a pretty high libido.
@testyman666@xanga - No, pretty sure she's just an idiot.
Oh look, Datingish is soliciting articles from highschoolers now.
i have 26 credits! i can add a mini!
Good post.
@bloggicus_maximus@xanga - What up, tootsie troll? Now say something nice instead of jumping in to criticize only when 99% of people commenting share the same sentiment.
You're like a bonus asshole multiplier. I have more respect for people who are assholes directly and by themselves. Tell me, how does that make you feel?
Oh, dear. I want to cry for humanity now!
lol-- what is this: turn offs from the late Queen Victoria? "WE are not amused!"
I, am not entirely turned ON by any of these, but I can see some times these 'turn off's don't actually turn me off.
I was going to make general comments (For myself, obviously not encircled in the above post's 'us'): but I have decided to just go by list points 1 at a time. (Just cause this post made me laugh)
It ended up being really long so it's here instead: http://denimpants.xanga.com/770912268/what-a-turn-off/
I like waxed supermodel bodies. david gandy-he is so delectable. he resembles my boss crush at work. I'd eat him alive. it'll take days, weeks, years to sex him up. thinking about watching him doing pushups turns me on, too. he elicits so many fantasies. I don't want to change him. I'll just date someone, who is already customized the way that I like it and he does it all on his own before he met me meaning he already loves working out, shaving, wearing clothing styles that he likes and that I also find sexy, etc. I'm not going to wait around making a fuss and wasting time about the guy that I can't stand when there is already a guy or some guys that appeal to me and vice versa.
If their pubes weren't changed in the beginning, it probably won't be later on. When I think I started my sexual peak or drive getting higher, one guy was the opposite and was older. I've dealt with him stopping oral sex after we had real sex. I probably needed to leave a few months earlier but I did leave. And sex isn't everything but we didn't seem close emotionally to have that either.
NUMBER ONE: How dare you speak on behalf of all women. You are not me, and unlike you many other women DO
-enjoy seeing their partners orgasm even if they don't
-enjoy being talked dirty to while having sex.
-prefer men not to shave their pubic hair (for the record: the actual penis itself does not have hair on it. If you're going to misrepresent half of the world's population, at least use the correct terminology for christ's sake)
-think that big penis jokes are clever/funny/appealing
So please do not tell men that no women like something just because YOU don't.
NUMBER TWO: Pissing and moaning about being stuck home alone waiting on your man is a reflection on you. You can't change anyone else's behavior, only your own. And you accept the love you think you deserve. Thus the only person who ruined your night is you. Find something else to do or someone else to hang out with and maybe you'll be appreciated a little more by your absent man.
NUMBER THREE: A man who is working, or with his "homeboys" is not justification for you cheating on him. If your lifestyles are not compatible and no compromise is in sight, break up and let him move on when you do.
NUMBER FOUR: Talking about female genitalia like it is some type of resentful animal is pretty rancid. Please find a more literately clever way to describe how you feel.
@IcECaT123@xanga - LOL i dont even know what this means but I like it.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - long story short, vaginas are just seriously fucking gross-looking. if you haven't ever seen one, i highly recommend you keep it that way.
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - Is that a joke (on both counts)? I've seen plenty of vaginas, including my own. I have (had) also not previously met heterosexual males who feel so negatively about female genitalia.