Thursday, 03 January 2013
I go to 4-5 different night clubs in my area when they have their Latin nights, and one thing I find baffling is the number of couples that choose to hang out at these clubs. In fact, on many nights, most of the women who show up are not single (yet there never seems to be a shortage of single guys).
Maybe it's just like that where I live and things are different in cities like New York or L.A., but still...unless they're REALLY into dancing (which most aren't), I don't see why these couples are choosing to go to night clubs, places that are primarily designed for single people to hook up, as if they have no other option.
If someone's idea of going out on a date involves standing around a crowded room while drinking and engaging in very little social interaction due to the loud music, then that must be a very lame relationship in my opinion.
There has to be reasons why couples go to night clubs if it's not for the dancing and drinking. Sure, maybe they just like the club atmosphere and it's what they're used to, or they only get to go out every once in a while and the club was just a suggested place. There seems to be other implicit reasons however, such as guys wanting to show off their hot girlfriends or for women to want to have a valid and solid excuse to turn other guys down.
In my opinion, unless they're there to partner dance, I think it would be best if couples stayed out of the clubs and did things that couples usually do instead, such as go bowling, watch a movie, eat sushi, etc. Either that, or be accepting of the consequences that come with visiting night clubs.
Women should know that they are going to be hit on by a bunch of guys in a club and should accept that instead of being total bitches about it, especially when said guys would not have known that said women are in a relationship because their boyfriends are using their "bathroom break" excuse to hit on other women on the other side of the club behind their backs.
Do you believe that night clubs are good places for couples to hang out, or should they be more reserved for single people?