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I've been seeing this guy for nine months. The last three months have been bad and I cant put my finger on it but he is drifting away, I can feel it.
He says he is a loner and wants to do his own thing; he doesn't want to be a surrogate dad to my kids. I never asked or expected him to. He is 41 with no kids, I'm 39 with 3 kids. I really like him and compared to the other guys, he just feels like my equal. I know he is scared but I don't know how to reassure him.