Sunday, 09 December 2012
I've read a lot of entries on here about girls worrying that their man will eventually wind up with a girl who is just a "friend" and break up with them. There is this guy that I like and even he is second best to a girl who has a boyfriend who isn't him. I can tell they like each other a lot and they flirt immensely, always taking each other's food and stuff and looking through each other's phones...touching each other's hands in a flirty way, and I'm thinking, doesn't she remember she has a boyfriend? People would think they were the ones who were together if they saw them.
I know she remembers she has a boyfriend; she brought him up in the car during a conversation about something but then she proceeded to get all cuddly with said guy who isn't her boyfriend, who is also the guy I have a thing for. They always hang out alone, too, and they find nothing wrong with that. I do find something wrong with that when they're flirting like crazy and she's taken by someone else.
I decided I deserve better than being a second priority to a "girl" who is just a so called "friend" even though she has a boyfriend. I'm all for balancing friends and a relationship, but I'd worry if a significant other is paying more attention to the opposite sex that's just a "friend" with potential to be more than paying attention to me, especially if I was his girlfriend.
Have you been in this situation being second best? Did you finally get out of it and found someone who would make you his/her top priority?