After suffering for years in my marriage without change in my husband's behavior, I'm now planning for a divorce. My husband loves gambling very much. He doesn't care about how to get money, rather how to spend it. We're in so much debt now that we can't even pay. However, my husband doesn't care about our debt caused by his bad habit. I am the only one who cares about taking care of our child, getting money, and all things in our marriage. It's as if I live for myself and my daughter.
I have been waiting for him to change for about 7 years. I always try to change my own behavior and I always pray to God to give me a way out. I'm so tired. My family in law also don't care about his behavior and always judges me. Actually, my parents never gave approval to me to get married to him. However, I didn't obey what they suggested. So, we married without my parents' approval. Yes, I regret it. I can't stand up for this marriage and my husband's behavior.
So, should I keep waiting for him to change even if it sacrifices me and my daughter's happiness (last year my daughter had to get out of her school cause by our inability to pay the school fee)?