I started talking to this guy I met on a online dating site. We hit it off really well, and he was amazing; we would talk every day. He was the most adorable guy ever. He would tell me stuff I wanted to hear, then tell me that it was real. After a week, we got kind of comfortable with each other. We talked about sex and it was weird because I'm still a virgin.
He said that he would wait. He lives 2-3 hours away and he is older than I am.
I text him "good night," and never he text me back. A week passed by and he didn't say anything; neither did I.
What can I do? Should I keep waiting or move on?
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It's nice you hit it off well with a guy, online or not. Have you found anyone else that you can get along with? I know that to connect with someone may be hard, but there are plenty of people out there to be able to connect with. So should you text him? You can text him with a simple "Hey there" and just leave it as that. In the meantime, see if there's other people you can connect with, not necessary to try to date them, but at least be friendly to and have someone else to converse with. In you're current situation, I would feel you don't want to put all of your eggs into one basket, so to speak. It's pretty early with this guy that you're mentioning in this blog, so you're not constrained to anything.
There's nothing wrong with doing a "nudge" text, like, "Hey, how are you doing today?" or something along those lines. Don't always wait for one text to be returned. Sometimes, people did see the message, but then got busy and forgot about it. It happens. Just don't be like texting non-stop, especially if he hasn't answered back yet.
Just text him to say hello.
Be safe!
maybe he met someone else on line who lives closer and will have sex with him.
@tictact0e0@xanga - What this person said.
How much older? What's his occupation? Is he successful and have a life or a loser on the net all day trying to woo girls on dating site?
Basically, for a too-vague post, I'll just give a too-vague reply: text him if you want to
If you like him, just text him & say hi. Worst case scenario; he doesn't text back, you move on.
Just text him. If he doesn't respond, It's probably safe to say that him saying he'd wait had no meaning.
It's been a week. If he wanted to text you back, he would've by now. Just forget him and move on.
First of all, "good night" is what I call a "Ending text"- It tends to signify the end of the conversation. I use them all the time with my wife. So, for him to not text you after that text that night is no big deal. Him not texting you the next day
might be a lack of interest, or he might be busy with work and such. Its hard to say- he might have just been thrown off by you being a virgin (nothing wrong with that, by the way).
No.
@TheLateKnightWriter@xanga - are you referring to texting your wife good night, or using it in conversation?
For now, do not contact him.
It'd be helpful if I knew ages and such. By the sounds of this post, you don't sound old enough to even be on a dating site. You shouldn't contact him though.
I was referring to using "ending texts" in a conversation. I'm usual at work when we text each other, so I often need her to quit texting me for a while. They're a nice way of telling her to quit. I have used "good night" a few time, though, if I'm working late.
No you shouldn't. Never do when in doubt.
Honey, trust me, I've had LOTS of experience with this... I'm a 24 year old virgin, and I know when a guy only wants one thing. Sorry. =(
But you deserve a guy who will love you for you; and give you attention for who you are, not what you do/ don't have.
If you haven't heard from him in a week he has moved on. Sorry! I have been on and off dating sites for years and if someone doesn't keep in constant touch with you they are talking to other people too dont forget and chances are they found someone else. Dont waste your time, move on
Never a good sign if the guy disappears on you. I say move on and don't waste your time.
I'd say forget it and move on...if you're both on a dating website it's more than likely he's hit it off with someone else...