This post was submitted by Sam.
So I met this guy when I was in the 5th grade. We would would hang out, but it was an on-and-off kind of deal. 10th grade rolls around and I started talking to him again. We started dating and about four months into our relationship, I learned that he had gotten a previous girlfriend pregnant! I asked him about it and of course because we are both young as well as the mom, he didn't want to talk about it.
Well, it's been 2 1/2 years and I really do love him and want to spend my life with him; he's such a great guy! He pays child support. Now the child's mother has started talking to him again saying she wishes it hadn't ended, and wants the family back together as a whole. I get jealous very easily so of course I'm getting mad. He wants me to visit the baby with him and the mom. I would just feel weird.
Should I be a part of the kid's life? The child is now two and he has maybe seen him five times tops.