My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months. We broke up once during that stretch and got back together after a few days. About two weeks ago, we got in a big fight and broke up. We got back together again for about a week and then I sensed she was unhappy. She told me she lost the spark. She loves being with me and loves me; she just isn't in love with me, and there are things about me that annoy her.
We agreed to take some time off but yesterday, she came over and it was kind of like we never broke up. She still says she isn't in love and doesn't want to be with me right now. She said she wants to hang out to see if things will change and if she can be happy again. She also doesn't want her friends to know we are hanging out because she doesn't want to look weak.
I really need some advice. Is this just a bump in the road? Does she just need some time away from calling me her boyfriend to realize she really does love me?