Saturday, 13 October 2012
Until the age of 23, I did not do anything sexual to myself. I was still a virgin, so the idea of masturbating felt so... weird, awkward, person-less. Friends advised me to help myself at easing the lifelong sexual frustration. They did not convince me. Sometime later, I went to an Endocrinologist in regards to my sex hormones test results and it was odd to her, that as a 23 year old virgin I do not "flick my bean."
So she told me that I should start doing it, that it would benefit me (I thought: "yeah right..."), but then I thought: "Okay, fine, why not... let me see and then talk about it." Can't criticize something that I'd never done, right?
So, I went to a sex shop (oh, that was a funny visit, because I would laugh out loud whenever I saw those Nulla-nulla looking dildos) and got one of those nice vibrating eggs (non-penetrative). It took me a few days to get adjusted to the fact that I was in possession of such an item, but I gave in... and literally: I was BLOWN away.
One year later, I am thinking that it must have been the best purchase ever, because no other object gave me so much pleasure. It relaxes me, it helps me at falling asleep, my sexual frustration level drops to 10% and it makes me... smile and laugh sometimes.
I love finding out which spots are most "active" on certain days. And I love the nights when I can climax 3 times during a 20-minute session. It is such a shame that I cannot put "masturbation" in my CV as one of my hobbies. (Just kidding!)
Alright, let me get to the second point of this post (the first was to write about the benefits of masturbation). Since I am single, I can do this whenever I want to, but what will happen once I am no longer single? Will the man try to sabotage my "joyful egg"? Will he say things along the lines: "Oh, since you are using that thing, I guess I am not giving you enough pleasure?" or will he be willing to help me while I am doing it?
See, I am not sure how I would feel if my man masturbated while being in a relationship with me. I do not want to give him any limitations or get mad for that.
Guys, how should I feel about my potential partner's masturbation? What do you think about your woman doing it?
Girls, how do you feel about your "happy time"? How does it work in your relationship? Did you stop masturbating once you entered a relationship?