Tuesday, 09 October 2012
This post was submitted anonymously.
I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. We dated for eight months before we committed. I said yes to being his girlfriend because on paper, he is a really nice guy. He listens, he really likes me, he gets me things, he is respectful, and he has the same values and culture. However, I have never felt attracted to him.
I originally thought I said yes because I might get to like him and the attraction would grow, then I thought I was only settling because I really want to get married and have kids. Now, I don't know.
He's trying so hard to be a boyfriend (he has never gone out with anyone before me). We haven't kissed and I'm reluctant to do so, but he is such a nice person!
What should I do?