Monday, 01 October 2012
I'm friends with this guy who's a dancer and 13 years older than me. We hang out all the time. We go to the movies, out to eat, swimming, play sports or just sit around conversing. I also help him out with creating things that will help advertise his work. He already clarified that he wasn't interested in men.
The thing is that when I questioned where we stood, friends or something else, he said, "Friends, of course we're friends. We'll see."
What the hell?! What does the "we'll see" mean!?
It's been 2 months since that incident and we are still constantly talking with one another and spending time together. He acts like nothing ever happened. He didn't back away or anything and he's always commenting how good I look. What's with this? Am I wasting my time and effort?
I have strong feelings for him and keep hoping things might change. I don't know if I can think of him as just a friend. Should I keep waiting or just break things off?