There is this girl I like from my sports club. We've known each other for about 8 months now and went out once to see a movie. At first I wasn't so sure nor did I care too much, but over time, I guess I developed feelings for her. I really like her but I don't know how to confess my feelings to her. This is the first girl I've ever liked and I don't want to mess up our relationship.
What should I do? Should I just walk up to her and tell her how I feel? Or should I wait for more time to pass to further develop our current "relationship"?
I'm so lost at the moment.
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this is cute. you sound pretty young, is that right?
it turns out that life isn't so much like the movies, where guy confesses all these feelings to girl, who falls hopelessly in love with him. but, we can't give more specific advice until you tell us how old you are--it's very relevant, because high school game is pretty different from college game, which is different from real life game.
Whenever posts like this pop up, all I can say is: Make a move! Snooze and you'll lose.
Fortune favors the Brave, my friend.
It's been 8 months. You've waited long enough. ASK HER OUT, WOO!
The more time that passes as friends, the less time you get to enjoy as a couple.
Just tell her, man. If she's your friend, then she'll be kind and understanding, even if she doesn't feel that way for you; she probably won't want to ruin your friendship any more than you do. If she reacts insecurely, then you won't be missing out on anything. AND of course, there's always the chance that she will go for you! Don't be scared, dude!
Yes, tell her!!! Before it's too late.
In person. Don't text, e-mail, or call. In person is good. Make eye contact.
Its obvious that you should make ur move alr. but i dunno, the waiting part makes everything mysterious and somewhat.. fun?
Just don't worry about it. If the moment comes, take it. Share your feelings. But don't worry about it. Simply be happy you have a friend, and don't worry or stress over it. Simply be natural. Be yourself, and allow her to be herself. :) Best wishes!! *HUGS*
You should go for it!
What a risk love is.
What if it doesn't work out?
Ah, but what if it does?
I confess because I never feel like I'm losing anything unless the other person is immature and completely uncomfortable with the fact that I enjoy their company.
Well I'll give you an alternative. I'm going to go with the assumption that you're kinda like me in that if just going for it were something you would do, you would have already (8 months is long, dude). What is slightly less scary (or whatever adjective you would like) is to just start making more of a point to hang out with her (it typically becomes apparent after a while that you have feelings for her, but it will be more gradual). If things go well and progress, you will likely get to a point where you either have the confidence that she will respond well, or it will just become something. Many of my relationships have started this way, with the question never actually being asked. If you notice that she seems to back off, it probably means she doesn't want anything more than friends with you. That's just a little easier to do if you're worried about awkwardness.
@Gaia - I agree.
@Gaia - I agree.