I was struck by a comment left by a Datingish guest on my most recent post
Finally a good post about a guy...I was beginning to think all guys blogged about on here are monsters.I'm not a guy but it's refreshing for a change to see that there are good guys out there other than the one that I know.
Why is it that even though we are all searching for happiness in our relationships, it can be so much easier to share the bad stuff than to good stuff?
For me its because I feel guilty gushing to my girlfriends about the nice guys when they’re dealing with jerks. I listen to them talk about their dating horror stories and then clam up about my own positive experiences. Do you feel like you’re bragging when you’ve got a happy dating story? Would you rather commiserate with your friends about their bad dating experiences than their good ones?