I am completely undecided between two guys; please help me pick one.
Dylan: He's in my grade and he is completely in love with me. He would do absolutely anything for me but he tries to go too far sexually, and I don't like it. I've told him my boundaries already before but the next day, he acts like they don't exist anymore. He's kinda' cute but very clingy and protective. He always has to know who I'm with, where I'm at, when I'll be home and all of that.
I'm 14 and he's 15. He is beyond sweet and has this whole idea of us being together forever. Our parents get along really well and my friends like him but I don't really get that "spark" with him much anymore. However, I still love him. He would never let anyone hurt me and he would give his life up for me. I've been dating him for almost 6 months but it seems like I've known him forever.
He always texts me "good morning" and "goodnight, beautiful." He's everything I wished for but now I don't know how much I actually wanted what I wished for just because he's so protective.
Trey: He's a year younger than me and he's really cute, funny, nice, and sweet. He really cares about me but not as much as Dylan. I haven't known Trey as long but he has always been there when I needed him. We are way cuter together and I get more excited when I think about Trey. I get that "spark" around him and I'd rather hangout with him. He's not so protective but he still cares and wouldn't let anyone mess with me.
All my friends like him and think I should go with him. He always texts me and calls me. He makes sure that I know he thinks I'm beautiful. Any time we hang out, we have an amazing time no matter what we're doing just as long as we can be together.
I am honestly torn and heartbroken on who to choose. Everyone tells me to follow my heart but I really don't know how. I'm going to be heartbroken either way because I'm going to have to lose one and they both mean a ton to me.
Please help me. I keep catching myself tearing up thinking about it. I'd do anything to just know the right decision.