Monday, 10 September 2012
Would you care if you introduced people to each other but you noticed a pattern that they started leaving you out, your friends constantly hooking up with each other and then keeping secrets from you? You didn't purposely try to bring them together in that way but it happens.
How and why a person met matters to me. If they met through me and both of them started to hurt me in some way, I will let it be known. My reasoning, mostly likely, if it weren't for me, these people wouldn't have known each other. One could say that they might have met some other place, some other time, but I don't believe that.
In this case, I'm the one that introduced them to each other and I don't appreciate people leaving me out or doing things behind my back. It isn't necessarily about being the third wheel, but flat out being ditched so you don't even have the chance of being a third wheel.
I've had "friends" before ditch me after I introduced them to guys and other friends they would have never known if it weren't for me. In a way, I'm glad that happened because it showed how much they really "cared" about me in the first place. Has a friend ever ditched you for a guy and/or friend you introduced them to? Did you care?
My situation reminds me of a fmylife I saw a long time ago. It read that her boyfriend left her for the girl who was staying in the same room as her at the hospital.