Saturday, 08 September 2012
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What's Your S/O Like Drunk?
Last weekend, my long-distance boyfriend came to visit me. Since it was Labor Day Weekend, my sister and I thew a party. My boyfriend drank too much too soon, and promptly fell asleep just a few hours into the party.
Maybe I should be upset about this. But actually, I really like my boyfriend when he's drunk.
Perhaps that's a weird thing to say. Obviously I don't like him dangerously drunk, and I would be worried if he started throwing up or trying to drive. But generally, I like him drunk. Why? Because he always tells me really sweet things when he's drunk.
Now, he tells me really sweet things when he's sober, too. But he's especially nice when he's drunk and tells me how awesome I am. Obviously, I feel the same way about him, although he doesn't get to hear it as often because I can take more alcohol than he can. And I'm not dating him to hear about how great I am. Still, it's a lovely perk.
Apparently, I'm also not the only one who feels this way, and he's not the only boyfriend who does it. When I told my friend about that night, she responded that her ex used to act the exact same way.That said, people have an extremely wide range of reactions to alcohol. So I'm sure some people hate when their S/O gets drunk, because he/she might get flirty or even violent.
What's your S/O like when he or she is drunk?
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I've never seen my husband drunk. When I am drunk my reaction ranges from silly and childish to cruel, vicious, and violent. In the past all of the guys I have dated have been the same.
you know, i was going to write an actual response to this post (since we all know how much i love alcohol), but a certain "related post" caught my eye: http://www.datingish.com/733170983/i-have-a-serious-question-about-group-masturbation/?=itemrelated
why do we not have posts like that anymore? cause i cracked the fuck up when i read that story.
My boyfriend's the same way, I love him drunk. However it's usually more like a tipsy drunk than drunk drunk. I would love to see him completely wasted to be honest. Whenever there's a fair amount of alcohol in him he ends up saying really sweet things. He can't really get drunk though cause his tolerance is way too fucking high (he's a big dude and his liver is evil). It takes him 10 shots+ to even get tipsy. Oh well.
Sometimes he can be a mean drunk though, oh wellz.
to be pretty honest, i like my SO the most when he's fairly tipsy and getting to the drunk point but once it's past the tipsy stage, i'm not a fan. after that, he can be an ass. best way to cure that is just both of us agreeing that we watch our limits (i'm sort of similar, i'm sweet when i'm tipsy but i'm totally honest in saying i'm too much of a flirty drunk so we're both better off sober/slighty tipsy)
we've had too many fights and awkward moments where, he mostly, we've drank too much and one of us is angry about what the other has said.
on the other hand, there have been SOME occasions where he has told me some incredibly nice things when he's beyond wasted that he doesn't even remember saying that's strengthened our relationship too so i guess you see the good and the ugly in people when alcohol comes into play.
First time, he flirted with my cousin to get me jealous when I left him at the beach house so I could join my sister at the beach to make sand sculptures.. second time, tried to show his DAD my nude photo on his phone. He gets TOO rambunctious sometimes.
I'm more mature and when I get tipsy I just get really chill and laidback.I don't know what I'm like drunk yet.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DeaGXjD_iDY
Okay, I had to. The picture with the article made me think of it.
my s/o doesn't drink. it would be interesting to see him drunk though, I'm curious to know how he'd act but kinda afraid it would bring that asshole side of him out more
My ex and I didn't drink very often, but when we did get drunk together once or twice he was always more touchy and flirty with me. I was the same way with him though. He would pick me up a lot. That being said, he was also an asshole to most everyone else. But like everyone else is saying, it was more of a tipsy/buzzed drunk than a drunk drunk. I've never even been drunk drunk.
i hate when he's drunk because it's annoying when he's stupid and slurred. and he gets way too angry. you're lucky
If you want to see the true nature of a man, see him when he's drunk. All the reserves and and barriers come down and the safety valves clog up. I've done that a few times with acquaintances who have wanted to be my friend and saved myself a lot of grief. I don't recall anyone who showed themselves to be an arsehole when drunk , that did not turn out later to be an arsehole when sober.
He gets really stupid. One time he was walking up the stairs and started yelling out, "I'm Spiderman!" He's only been drunk around me twice.
horny and sleepy
When he's drunk in general...he gets reckless like an stereotypical 23 year old male. He'll drive drunk, get into fights and generally get into trouble.
When he's drunk around ME, he turns into a giant baby. "Baby come cuddle with me." "Baby let's go to sleep." "Baby give me a hug." "Baby take care of me." Boring, but less likely to get arrested.
FEISTY
My ex was a total loser when he was drunk. He couldn't drink without blacking out, which would have been tolerable if he didn't drink often, but he drank at least 3 nights a week. I spent many a Friday and Saturday night carrying him home or running around searching for him after he'd wandered out of the bar in his drunkeness. I really, really hated that. Looking back, I still don't understand why I put up with it for so long.
I actually hate being around anyone who's drunk, but luckily my boyfriend is not a big drinker. He'll have a couple of beers on a night out, but generally it doesn't change him - he just becomes more confident and a bit more affectionate, but he's affectionate enough as it is sober. I used to be on anti-depressants which have totally fucked up my alcohol tolerance, so I can't get drunk and when other people get that way, it just irritates me.
People have different reactions when they are drunk and it is good that your bf gets romantic! I am afraid of people's reactions to alcohol, as I've seen some friends getting from nice to stupid, to violent...
@AuCinema@xanga - my ex was EXACTLY the same. It was so annoying and it just caused arguments all the time.
when my boyfriend gets tipsy/drunk he's very affectionate and social and lovey dovey with me, it's kinda cute but I wish his breath didn't smell like beer when he tells me these things XD
My boyfriend is the same way. When he's drunk he talks about how he wants to be with me forever and gets so sweet. I fucking love it. He's even cried in front of me while drunk. x)
Lucky you. Mine gets really sleepy and looks high. He can't open his eyes all the way and eventually passes out cuddling with the cat. He did turn sweet/emotional one time, but I don't like that in a man haha.
My ex didn't really change much. He was just more of what he already was. More touchy, more flirty, more sweet, more happy...a really awesome drunk person.
Mine's allergic to alcohol or something. Half of a shot and his face turns bright red, he sits down, and tells me he can't breathe.