Wednesday, 05 September 2012
I have two kids by a 24-year old man, whose main intention is destroying my life. I haven't been with him in almost 4 years. Yet, he still finds ways to piss me off.
Every time we have a disagreement he tells me that he had sex with my sister, while we were together. Now, I don't put it past him nor her, but of course my sister fully denies it and he has no reason to lie.
Just recently I found out he had sex with my cousin, whom was either 16 or 17 at the time. We weren't in a relationship then, but he was with another female, whom he also has two kids with (younger than mine). My cousin, who is turning 19 in a month, says she's in love with him--haha!
This man was my first everything. I do mean...EVERYTHING! And even though I no have feelings for him, it pisses me off that after she's seen what I went though with him, knowing that he doesn't do anything for our kids and has hit me in the past, she believes he has changed.
Needless to say I don't speak to her. She's scared to go to any family member's house, out of fear that I might show up. She's family so it's only a matter of time until I do run into her. He still calls me ALL THE TIME to say what a mistake everything was and that he still loves and wants to be with me. But what she doesn't understand is if I would leave the man I'm with (which I never would), he would drop her in a heart beat. He even denies having contact with her at all anymore, to be with me. It's not me being cocky, that's just how it is.
How would you feel if an ex started to date someone in your family? Would you allow it?