A few months ago, my co-worker told me this story.
Her friend was dating this guy and hooked up with him. Afterwards, he told her that they couldn't see each other anymore.
When asked why, he informed her that she was "selfish in bed."
Apparently, he had gone down on her and she made no move to reciprocate. But he didn't ask or make a comment about it, then dumped her. How mature.
Sure, it can be awkward directing a partner in bed, especially when you don't know each other that well. But what's the point in having sex if you don't enjoy it? Gently guiding hands and tongues, short commands that kinda count as dirty talk... all these work as well if you're really too shy.
They're sexy and aren't excessively critical of a complete stranger.
But this guy clearly wasn't shy, since he told this girl flat-out the reason he was breaking it off. So he's just an immature kid who can't ask for what he wants in bed and blames other people for it. I hope he doesn't get another blowjob for a while.What do you think? How do you direct your sex partner?